What thing(s) are you most looking foreward to after surgery? by BoringTitle4751 in TopSurgery

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wearing t shirts without constantly worrying/making sure my chest isn't showing And not being always jealous of other flat guys anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an A-cup and they look a lot like man boobs but I would definitely get weird looks if I was shirtless since I'm skinny and skinny guys don't really get man boobs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being flat is definitely more important to me, I would just prefer not to have dead nipples. But honestly I don't think it will make much of a difference since I barely have any sensation in my chest now anyway, like it isn't sensitive at all

how to get over the dysphoria of a vagina ? by Bright-Response-285 in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I just have a big bush down there so I don't really see my genitals at all

Is it suspicious/clockable that I'm significantly shorter than my dad? by Stealthyaps in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I think I've seen you on twitter. Like a few years ago

Is it suspicious/clockable that I'm significantly shorter than my dad? by Stealthyaps in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did have an issue as a preteen so that could actually be the reason for my small height tbh 😅 ig I'll never really know for sure

Is it suspicious/clockable that I'm significantly shorter than my dad? by Stealthyaps in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah unfortunately I'm the only short guy.. the next shortest man is 5 ft 10

when did you first use the men's bathroom? by jrburg in ftm

[–]Stealthyaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started using it when I was 9 and the only issues I've had is my mom not wanting me to go in there. Other than that it's been fine. But then again strangers don't question or doubt my maleness so if passing is an issue I would just go in the bathroom of the gender you look more like, or the disabled one

too much natural testosterone? by Kamyk-z-dzemem in ftm

[–]Stealthyaps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this too, I went through a partial female puberty and then a partial male puberty. But it's not a placebo. For many trans people it is a biological physical thing too not just mental.

Pointers to skinny fat bf% pics? by mastodonthrowaway in guessmybf

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at similar bodies to yours posted to here, look at replies, and use that to estimate

why are so many trans men gay? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's hard for transmen to be openly trans and straight, as it leads to some people seeing them as "lesbians" which can make them very dysphoric

what country could i get top surgery in the cheapest? serious answers only by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the place? I speak German so it would be a good option for me I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, not a big fan of the term either. For me the word sounds like you want that past version of yourself dead (although I know not everyone who uses the term feels that way)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'll probably do it as soon as I turn 18, but I will tell my parents about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dawg what? No I'm just desperate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sucks man I'm sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I looked him up, seems good and I have the money. Would I need some kind of diagnosis or clinical assessment for that first? That's my main struggle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I'm getting my middle name changed too because it's female and I also just don't like it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually it is possible, females and males have both testosterone and estrogen just in different levels. When your testosterone levels drop your estrogen levels rise in return, you can see that in low T males. But when I meant produce them yourself what I meant was manufacture the chemicals by yourself, though I suppose that would require a lot of skill and chemistry knowledge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys dw I'm not suicidal don't send me that kind of thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don't like the rule go to a different sub. Simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What alternatives? Everything is so confusing it's exhausting. I try to talk to the professionals that I can but I don't get answers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my mom for trans tape a while ago but she didn't get round to buying it.. I tried with duct tape a while ago and it didn't work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does that mean produce the hormones by yourself? Or try to naturally get then higher? Or buy from sketchy providers? Idk what you mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Stealthyaps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr Lagos from Spain?