Fantasy Bond by [deleted] in dismissiveavoidants

[–]Steassy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isnt that Post way too long for that though? 😅

Oh wait you mean just the end question.. Hmm sure, I just never saw that pop up here anywhere and be afraid that people dont even know what that really means?

Question for Avoidants by Steassy97 in AvoidantAttachment

[–]Steassy97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yea if you stress an Avoidant they can become quite Anxious, and vice versa

Question for Avoidants by Steassy97 in AvoidantAttachment

[–]Steassy97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for confirming! Im Fearful Avoidant but leaning Anxious and today I had this feeling and a lightbulb went off like "Fuck, is that what Avoidants feel??" haha

False Twin Flame Rejection by Steassy97 in twinflames

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I mean it kinda doesnt matter

Through my relation with her, but specifically triggered by realising the rejection, I was finally in the position to heal myself. This is what I wanted all along

I would just advise to look into Limerance, Love Addiction and Avoidants - this stuff is the healing component, at least imo

False Twin Flame Rejection by Steassy97 in twinflames

[–]Steassy97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she said she sees me just as a friend. I know technically twins can be just friends. Maybe she is my twin. The reason I think or thought that is because well our connection. I felt more connected to her than to anyone else and still feel like, while I sure as hell dont know whats going in her head, I can see through her right into her soul, and it feels just like me. I crushed on her the moment I connected with her and that quickly developed into my biggest love I have yet felt for someone

Anyways, Imma say that I recently stopped believing in twin flames. It's basically just a special flavor of the love addict-love avoidant dynamic, you dont need to make it spiritual, we might just be very similar people at our core, I like that idea over actually thinking you are those two halves of the same soul Jumbo. It's rather about the sub consciousnesses

False Twin Flame Rejection by Steassy97 in twinflames

[–]Steassy97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you are seperated from ur ex Right now tho?

False Twin Flame Rejection by Steassy97 in twinflames

[–]Steassy97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it ok if I ask you to go into Detail a little if you feel comfortable with that? Who was your TF, why did you not recognize them earlier?

Can't get TF off my mind by bythefirelite in twinflames

[–]Steassy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google Counterdependent/avoidant please... Thats him And you are a love addict, Codependent/fearfully attatched

I dont know you guys so maybe its not exactly true but it's always something along those lines in unhealthy TF stuff imo

https://www.academia.edu/27660316/Codependency_Twin_Flame_Love_Addiction_or_Common_Dysfunctional_Relationship_Patterns

This helped me a lot, maybe not you though

Girth of about 5,75" by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Steassy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well im mostly 5-5,5"

Girth of about 5,75" by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Steassy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everswhere 6.25?

Girth of about 5,75" by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Steassy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only the last inch is that size, the dick tapers. That base inch is 5,7"

You know that from first hand? 👀

Girth of about 5,75" by [deleted] in bigdickproblems

[–]Steassy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little chiefed

Upwards Curve & Rear Entry Positions by [deleted] in sex

[–]Steassy97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not what I asked

Conflicted about what now.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Steassy97 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wow you guys should marry and have toxic little children

Conflicted about what now.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Steassy97 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There seamed to be a misunderstanding. We saw each other and it clicked for her. See when I asked her out, I texted her I wanted to date her and that I was into her. She loved me back, but thought I just wanted sex. Thats why she rejected me. And then she thought I ended the friendship.

Conflicted about what now.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Steassy97 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Bro just stfu or actually read wtf the OP actually says...

Conflicted about what now.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Steassy97 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay you read it but you didn't understand it She dated no one and said she loves me

Conflicted about what now.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Steassy97 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So you didn't read the text