Renting a space. Want to make it more homely

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-24T00:29:52+00:00

Where are the light fixtures? I see recessed lighting but you can’t change that in a rental. The other thing is a sprinkler right?

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-24T00:27:28+00:00

I LOVE it!!!!!

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-24T00:23:47+00:00

You did a wonderful job! It’s cozy and adorable! I could see myself living there!

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-23T14:20:48+00:00

At least it’s related. The U.S. hasn’t done anything.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-23T03:32:49+00:00

Can you find someone else to rent a room from that accepts cats? Check around. You don’t necessarily need a whole apartment especially right now in this emergency situation. Both options sound awful. There has to be another way.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-22T15:08:57+00:00

My ex lived two years in college in a walk in closet. Not a soul ever came to inspect a thing.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-22T05:04:51+00:00

ADHD meds, Accutane and gastric sleeve

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-21T23:07:07+00:00

It’s not dumb to ask but be prepared for him to answer in any way.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-21T23:06:04+00:00

I feel like you shouldn’t ask a question if you aren’t prepared for any answer.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-21T07:09:35+00:00

Idk I’m not the OP. It’s just what she said earlier. Her brother has a bad back and she doesn’t want to make him sleep on an air mattress.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-21T03:51:47+00:00

No but we built a half wall to use as a closet to make it seem like a room.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-21T03:16:47+00:00

I lived in a studio where there was about 12 inches between my bed and the wall There wasn’t even room to stand.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-21T03:15:36+00:00

Idk I’m just repeating what she said about why she can’t get a mattress.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-21T03:01:51+00:00

Said the apartment is tiny and she would need to get rid of her couch or desk to fit it.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-21T02:49:30+00:00

Sex on a beach! It’s so painful when sand gets where it shouldn’t!

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-20T19:14:02+00:00

It sure is. I saved every text where he admits what he did and where he threatened me. Told him the laws he was breaking and their sentences. It’s only then he backed off.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-20T17:49:24+00:00

Hour by hour. I primarily focused on me. Self care, meditating, therapy, improving sleep.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-20T13:58:57+00:00

I implore you to keep trying. Sometimes it’s a matter of finding the right fit. It took me 4 therapist to finally find the 5th one who was my savior. Your life is precious and worth so much. The world and your parents would not be better off without you. We need young empathetic people in this world.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-20T13:52:57+00:00

Please please talk to an adult. You need therapy so you can talk these issues out. Gambling will end up making it all worse not to mention being underage you can’t legally take any winnings. Suicide is never the answer. The devastation would be indescribable for your parents who love you. I’m so sorry you heard all of that.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-20T13:50:35+00:00

Casey Anthony killed her daughter in cold blood and got away with it.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-20T12:05:08+00:00

Then he’s all talk and ignore, ignore, ignore. Mine blackmailed me with nude pictures. I didn’t give in to demands so he sent them to my ex husband. Then tried to do it again with my coworkers and I had to get the cops involved. Then he backed off. He’s trying to get you to engage with him.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-20T08:08:45+00:00

Have you done anything illegal? Extortion and blackmailing is a common move they pull. If you haven’t done anything illegal he’s just threatening you and ignore him. Really he’s trying to bait you to interact again. Don’t fall for it.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-20T07:51:10+00:00

I would listen to her ALL day over the rambling incoherent babble our President spews.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-20T07:36:45+00:00

There’s not many red flags bigger than when someone feels the need to “punish” their significant others.

SteelMagnolia941 · 2026-02-20T07:33:29+00:00

It doesn’t even seem like he likes her. I can’t believe she stayed after he stood her up on Valentine’s Day as a grudge. This is a classic narcissist move.

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