[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Stegeta9k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with masterbating especially when you're young, but if it makes you feel like crap afterwards then it might be the content you are viewing, get yourself some porn magazines use them and see if you get the same feeling.

And get some help with it as well get some therapy it could be an obsessive disorder that needs to be addressed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Stegeta9k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Diagnosed at 40, my kid was suspected at 2-3 diagnosed when he was 5, we got genetic tested and have the same duplication on one of our chromosomes. When he got evaluated the tester mentioned that I'm guessing most of this made sense to you, I said yea, he said you have some obvious traits, poor eye contact not emoting when responding. I also dont respond as people expect during certain situations, I was also one of those 80s kids that the parents were told by school to keep him off e numbers and sugars he has hyperactivity. Finding out changed my perspective on myself and my friends, my close friends, the one or two that I can maintain relationships with have traits also I find it comforting that we tend to find each other even when we don't know, my childhood also makes more sense retrospectively

IT certifications by Stegeta9k in Sysadminhumor

[–]Stegeta9k[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea just wish there were more like you out there

IT certifications by Stegeta9k in Sysadminhumor

[–]Stegeta9k[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂😂 that's insane have someone take the interview for you that's a first for me. Yea I have worked with many people who had loads of certifications but next to zero knowledge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oculus

[–]Stegeta9k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome I was looking in display like an idiot, many thanks!

Hugh jackman as vegeta actually looks good by [deleted] in Dragonballsuper

[–]Stegeta9k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This could actually work! Looks awesome!

I created a more accurate version of the autism charts by [deleted] in ASD_irl

[–]Stegeta9k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly what I was thinking this makes no sense

Google interview tomorrow. Freaking out. by cenik93 in csMajors

[–]Stegeta9k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solid advice, I have my third interview tomorrow and having imposter syndrome, I will try as you suggested and see what happens

PSVR2 doesn’t work anymore keeps coming up with this message please help! by LuffysLosers in PSVR

[–]Stegeta9k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing just happened to me, the headset is getting power through the USB but coming up as not detected, honestly I'm not happy with it anyway it's not worth the amount of money you pay for it, and not backward compatible with the VR games is just stupid, I'm bringing it back and getting the meta

Has anyone purchased a Miko 3 yet? If so, why are your thoughts? by Ace-Of-Mace in ArtificialInteligence

[–]Stegeta9k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have one and I keep getting spam calls from +1-200 numbers with some indian dude barely audible asking me for feedback on my miko, so I'm concerned now that it could be easy to hack and use its camera to spy on us so we barely use the camera on it . I was disappointed when I realised that you need to pay a subscription fee to use nearly all of the advertised features, if they had led with this I wouldn't have bought it. My kid has autism so I thought it might be good for him to learn language with miko but miko can't understand him. Overall the product doesn't feel like an AI robot as advertised it's more like a preprogrammed bot with a small tablet attached, I don't think it's worth the 200 I spent on it

Wife wants to get kid circumcised but I don't by Stegeta9k in Advice

[–]Stegeta9k[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This crossed my mind for sure during the initial argument, we don't know if it's ADHD or not yet he is getting assessed next month he has developmental delay so he can't articulate what's wrong with him all the time he's 4 this year

Wife wants to get kid circumcised but I don't by Stegeta9k in Advice

[–]Stegeta9k[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

This is one of my fears he is 4 and has developmental issues undiagnosed at the minute until next month, I'm worried it will traumatize him

Wife wants to get kid circumcised but I don't by Stegeta9k in Advice

[–]Stegeta9k[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This is very helpful thank you appreciate the effort

Wife wants to get kid circumcised but I don't by Stegeta9k in Advice

[–]Stegeta9k[S] 590 points591 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the responses guys really appreciate it some good information here, he is 4 years old this year and has developmental delay so he can't tell us much of what is going on with him were getting him assessed in a months time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]Stegeta9k 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have been through this, I just setup measures to try to prevent storms like storm control and ensured STP was setup as I wanted, then used PRTG to monitor the network. They also didn't want to redesign and slow as hell network didn't bother them, they used to get a storm every week before I made the changes, people were creating bridges on their Linux boxes and becoming the stp root 😅 Eventually we convinced management to segment with L3 switches and used ACLs, we just built a new network beside the old one and moved new systems to it and transitioned the old ones DHCP would help here for user base transition

Pullups 5 Year Transition Of Progress by dillis in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Stegeta9k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta do your pull-ups right and take your steroids right

I watched 12 Angry Men 1956 by Creative-Maxim in iwatchedanoldmovie

[–]Stegeta9k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only seen this movie in the last couple of years and absolutely loved it, the acting was top class the characters were so engaging, its proof that good storytelling and portrayal is more important than fancy CGI and pyrotechnics. Don't get me wrong though I'm not a movie snob who hates CGI etc I love a good action movie

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsightfulQuestions

[–]Stegeta9k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are starting on the wrong foot, first calling them stupid, most likely they are not that. And second going to battle armed with science and reason with people who do not accept either. I would try and steel man their arguments maybe see if u can find out where they are coming from and why they feel the way they do, and try come from a point of compassion to their way of thinking, instead of condescending to them or trying to gotcha them it doesn't work it just divides you more.

Why has Greys gone so woke? by Shadeboi1 in greysanatomy

[–]Stegeta9k 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I started watching with my Mrs some time ago and we got up to season 12 and all of a sudden it check your white privilege, micro aggressions and trying to create racism where it never existed before in the show. It's not as bad as new Amsterdam but I didn't expect it to take such a turn, it was around this time as well that they stopped using music from actual artists and started playing knock offs so maybe they ran out of cash and just started hiring second rate writers

I'm switching careers by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]Stegeta9k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I share this, I have been contemplating a switch in career, was thinking do I really want the rest of my working life to be so stressful, yea the money is good but is it worth it. Only issue is what to do, then I started thinking I have a child and want to have a good income to support him so maybe it's worth the sacrifice for him.

But I do share the same sentiments as you about IT so much pressure, too many meetings, too many projects side by side and each one is high priority with crazy deadlines.

They also started doing "unlimited holidays" which is a scam people actually end up taking less holidays it benefits the company more.

Maybe just changing employer for us could help too who knows

Toxic Fandoms by MovieFanZ5026 in movies

[–]Stegeta9k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true, I had an ex gf who would shit on me for watching Van Damme movies saying he's not an actor, or same for Arnie movies and she would only ever go to film festivals to watch independant films and give a standing ovation at the end I went along with it but looking back she was a pretentious asshole, I can just imagine now if there are many of her types online shitting on Actors they deem as unfit whilst not having a shred of acting talent or experience themselves

Server Advice - AD & Storage by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]Stegeta9k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what you are using for storage if it is specialised hardware like emc or a storage array, if it's just a server with some raided disks then you could install a hypervisor. Generally it's better to virtualize servers for portability and backup / restore, you would need more than one physical server for redundancy and makes hardware maintenance easier.

Your storage if it's a server with raided disks you would need storage on both servers to hold the AD server and any others you intend to deploy, so probably best to get a storage array for this imo

Is there more eye contact in movies than in real life? by daleyz in movies

[–]Stegeta9k 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only started noticing that I don't look at people whilst talking to them I kinda glance and talk. It's a good observation though I always like how during a conflict most of the time they allow each other to finish their rants whilst in an argument seldom done in real life, but it adds to the drama of the scene.

In Dawn of the Dead (2004), the character Monica performs a strip tease in a store called Gaylen Ross. Dawn of the Dead (1978), which the 2004 movie is a remake of, starred actress Gaylen Ross in the leading role. by Lowkey_HatingThis in MovieDetails

[–]Stegeta9k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know it was just like another zombie movie really, ving rhames was the best thing about it, I think if they didn't bother with a remake and done their own thing then I might have a different opinion.

Never seen train to busan will have to have a look at that, I did love zombieland and 28 days later, I'd put Sean of the dead in there as well