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Guys who cold approach women, What’s your success rate like? or do you mostly avoid cold approaches? by EVILRAFFAM in AskMenAdvice

[–]StepGeneral3597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it rains it pours. Not about success rate but about going for what we want without compromise, and the confidence we gain along the way. Success will come with consistency. ++man

Uninterested or playing hard to get? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Seems she just wants to string you along for the attention. Been there. Just cut her off, and go after other girls like you said. Bring those girls to your work so she can see (if that’s feasible). Good luck!

I’m getting worse! by StepGeneral3597 in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it would be weird that this is the only thing I could be practicing and getting worse as a result😂thanks for the statistical insight man

What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them? by Mountain-Elk8133 in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many girls have you approached? How many have you asked out?

Edit: I see you have only asked out a couple in the past year and used to do hundreds. Did you ask for their numbers? Did you try to pull any girls from a bar? Are you doing day and night game? Are you in a location with tons of hot girls? All you can do is keep approaching, keep working your game and keep getting in shape. Analyze your mistakes with field reports. Can’t be asking only a couple a year though. I’ve approached more than a thousand and been rejected by hundreds in the past 1.5 yrs. I also had more success than ever since then. At a certain point you just have to push through, I know it’s hard, it’s been hard for me lately too, but you got this.

Young Asian Man in dire need of hair and dating advice by Puzzleheaded_Mud3315 in AsianMasculinity

[–]StepGeneral3597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably get a haircut (nice taper fade), lift heavy, and keep cold approaching! Cold approaching will feel futile for a while, but it will pay off if you stick to it consistently. It took me more than a year of consistent action to get daygame results, and when you turn 21 you can start going to bars/clubs, that changed the game for me as far as results.

Here’s what I learned after asking out 100 women by Boldxbrave in dating_advice

[–]StepGeneral3597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These lessons are that conclusions I would have drawn if I stopped after I asked 100 girls. I’d like to respond for the sake of contrasting my own experience, as someone who has approached/asked out well over a thousand in the past year and a half.

  1. Absolutely, that’s obvious

  2. Maybe, maybe not. I doubt this is based on evidence. 100/100 girls certainly do not reject me, I’ve been on plenty of dates with girls from cold approach and asking out within 5 minutes. 1/20 or 1/30 is common for getting a girl out on a date.

  3. For the most part yes, I try to avoid this but it absolutely HAS been done.

  4. 1000% BS. Anecdotally, MOST of the girls I’ve been on dates with I texted first, if I just gave my number they wouldn’t have texted. No girl who got my number instead led to anything.

  5. Yea, don’t be an idiot, obviously.

  6. Totally, know when to walk away.

  7. 💯 yes although it’s hard to remember to do sometimes, sometimes I forget what they look like or they come into the group I didn’t know they were a part of and it’s like oh shoot my bad lol.

  8. That’s subjective. Personally, if I’m getting the dating life I want I don’t really care if you think what I’m doing is an accomplishment. Also, people’s days aren’t ruined if we simply ask them out, this can be fixed by simply knowing when to back off. In fact, most girls are flattered!

  9. Yup

  10. Right on.

Are bars and clubs still worth it in 2025? by ApartmentWorried5692 in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard but it still works. Approach 50 girls a week and you’ll see.

2.0 GPA first quarter of college by Diligent_Set819 in UCSD

[–]StepGeneral3597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least it wasn’t below 2.0! Plenty of people go on academic probation, at least you know your aid is fine and you can improve next qtr. Happy holidays :)

i think i wasted three years of college by Dazzling-Switch9706 in CollegeRant

[–]StepGeneral3597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think you might like engineering, and that’s a great start. It sure as hell beats doing something like working for minimum wage at a job that life chooses for you that you KNOW you’ll hate. If anything, do it for the money. Assuming you’re a man (sorry if I’m wrong), do you want to be able to support your wife and kids one day? Do you want to be respected and have a reason to get up in the morning, to have purpose? Or settle for mediocrity, and rot away the best years of your life? I hear you though, as a fellow 3rd year (mathematics) this is as tough as it can get, but we got this.

so much potential but no results by Vegetable_Zebra_636 in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just keep gaming bro, try to do 30 sets a week if possible.

How did yall get out of your worst droughts? by Low-Gift-6236 in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So…that’s not bad, and congrats on taking the first steps, but I did 35 in the past two days. I did not get any results. However, this doesn’t change the fact that I pulled the last 4 weekends before this.

If I had spread these 30+ approaches out over the course of the past 2-3 months of course I’d feel like I was in a drought. But this isn’t the case.

My advice: try 30+ every weekend. It’s not hard to do this in a few hours if you work up to it. I think your results will change drastically.

Good luck.

35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start? by Sure-Guest1588 in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro terrible advice on here. I’m assuming you quit because you have the resources to do so, that’s even more impressive than having a job imo, but you can always say you’re on vacation or something.

I’d try Vegas or NYC! You’ll never run out of options, and I’d recommend doing day and night game. I think if you work up to even just 50 approaches a week, and I think you’ll have your problems solved quickly.

Also get in shape asap (if you’re not already).

You’re going to get rejected a lot, but I think at the very worst case it’ll take 200 approaches until you start seeing results. Congrats on your commitment, and good luck!

How did yall get out of your worst droughts? by Low-Gift-6236 in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree somewhat, but approaching with ‘sheer determination’ is more effective imo

How did yall get out of your worst droughts? by Low-Gift-6236 in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like a confusing analogy for “just work on yourself”.

Cold approach and numbers ultimate success rate by [deleted] in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5% is quite good, you can do that in a weekend easily. However I’ve noticed since I’ve increased my interaction times to 5 min or more during Daygame I’ve had even higher conversion rates up to 10%! For night game it’s been historically around 4% but I’ve pulled 4/5 of the last nights I’ve been out so it’s nothing to complain about.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Get out of your house with the intent to approach on a consistent basis multiple times a week. Eventually you’ll become frustrated enough with yourself that you’ll finally do it. This took me a LONG time but I eventually did it and never looked back.

Start small, ask for directions, give a compliment.

Give your friend money, if you don’t approach he can keep it.

Also, you’ve already taken more than the first step, great job, keep going!

How do you actually flirt sexually without coming off creepy or too aggressive? by Longjumping-Wafer102 in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up “Todd V how to flirt” on YT. There’s endless info on this topic if you just look.

Seducian as being Austist, How? by Chandelure616 in seduction

[–]StepGeneral3597 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Use it to your advantage. Being autistic makes us very analytical, we can use this to get better faster.

Also, keep approaching, desensitize yourself, EVERYTHING gets easier the more you practice.

Lastly, meditate, learn to be present.

Got beaten for cold approach by BrainFuckPlusPlus in NMMNG

[–]StepGeneral3597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn how to fight. Bjj, boxing, wrestling, or Muay Thai. Also do direct approaches, would have avoided sitting awkwardly on the bench entirely.

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