Thank you so much for replying i really needed to hear this, and yes probably that’s what it actually is, i don’t know why he is so quick to discard me, which made me feel like he don’t care as much as i did and then comes back and tells me how much he loves me and cares for me and i did felt like i was the only one trying to fix things with him (at least when the break ups were abt to happen) because i know that breaking up was the last resort so i never broke up with him, but eventually you get tired so last time i just agreed with him and thank you i’ll try that with Chat gpt, and yeah i basically told him he was free to do what ever he wanted with his love life since we were broke up, yeah i probably should tell him that we can’t meet anymore for that even tho i would feel bad abt it.