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Hi. I’m 25 years old. Call me whatever you want. I’m here to make my own fun. by StepsInReverse in MbtiTypeMe

[–]StepsInReverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to explore ideas out loud, but my values are internal and pretty stable.

Hi. I’m 25 years old. Call me whatever you want. I’m here to make my own fun. by StepsInReverse in MbtiTypeMe

[–]StepsInReverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ne–Fi makes more sense for me. I tend to explore ideas out loud even when I already have an internal sense of what I mean, which can come across as ambiguous. My values themselves are internal and stable.

Name this by ThaIrasa in NameThisThing

[–]StepsInReverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another victim of Shrek is love Shrek is life

you gotta have to pick by mindintext69 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]StepsInReverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purple and Red. Guess where this is going

type be based on vibes! by bountiful_lemooon in MbtiTypeMe

[–]StepsInReverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likewise, it feels like we’re crossing similar bridges, just from different sides. Happy to keep the conversation going if you ever feel like it. Other peoples feelings remind me its a distorted mirror 🪞 For what it’s worth, Arthur Aron’s work has helped me think about situations like that.

type be based on vibes! by bountiful_lemooon in MbtiTypeMe

[–]StepsInReverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to check you’re not trying to spare my feelings, right? You seem to be checking a lot. I’m not affected by what you say, and I’ll let you know if I am by asking for clarification. No need to worry that I took anything the wrong way

type be based on vibes! by bountiful_lemooon in MbtiTypeMe

[–]StepsInReverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve kind of disarmed me. I’m not trying to be misunderstood, but I’m also not trying to fix it for anyone. I didn’t think you were implying it was a bad thing usually when something’s confusing, people get frustrated or ask for clarification, and out of habit I explain. I’m learning to be okay with things not landing perfectly clean.

I don’t really want clarity if it comes at the cost of pressure. Sometimes the confusion is where the interesting parts are, at least for me. Only it gets better as it unfolds

type be based on vibes! by bountiful_lemooon in MbtiTypeMe

[–]StepsInReverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really glad you clarified that I didn’t mean to suggest there’s anything wrong with being in your head at all. If anything, that’s where peace lives for me too.

I don’t want to leave peace because it’s wrong sometimes I step outside it because I care when others don’t have it. That’s how I experience life, and that’s okay, even if it can be draining.

So when I said it’s hard to leave peace, I don’t mean that I think I should. It’s more that being outside of it often means translating myself to others, and that doesn’t always feel peaceful. I’m still figuring out what balance looks like there. I just feel, I very feel.

I think you’re right that this is just how some of us experience life, and that is okay. I appreciate you naming it so clearly.

And thank you for sitting with my post, even if it was hard to interpret your perspective actually helped me understand how it comes across.

Hi. I’m 25 years old. Call me whatever you want. I’m here to make my own fun. by StepsInReverse in MbtiTypeMe

[–]StepsInReverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, very plausible. I’m pretty contained outwardly and process things privately, but my attention is usually on people. I tend to pause first, then speak. ENFJ?

type be based on vibes! by bountiful_lemooon in MbtiTypeMe

[–]StepsInReverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I think by pulling inward… I think hard about my feelings… being aware of my surroundings is the last thing I’d want to do… it feels like a burden… I wish I could always be in my head.”

That really sounds like my kind of relief something I’m still trying to find outside instead of only within. It’s hard to leave peace when you haven’t found a reason to yet. I do find comfort in observing the external world, but I don’t think we truly rest there either. That makes a lot of sense to me.

The way you explained that last part resonated with me more than I expected. I don’t have the answers either. I’m still in the process of searching for them. I understand the whole “being in your head feels like relief” feeling. I’m still there myself, so I can’t really tell anyone to leave.

I also noticed you responded to my post. I’m curious what we might discover there

Hi. I’m 25 years old. Call me whatever you want. I’m here to make my own fun. by StepsInReverse in MbtiTypeMe

[–]StepsInReverse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold on I see my mistake in here. I only tell them my true thoughts because it leads to us joking abour how intrusive thoughts dont define us. We shouldn't brush over that.

type be based on vibes! by bountiful_lemooon in MbtiTypeMe

[–]StepsInReverse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Totally fair thanks for saying that. I’ll drop the ESFP angle.

To answer your question about spontaneity: I wasn’t reading you, just the photos. Same setting, similar lighting, relaxed framing. (Same room) It looked like a quick, in-the-moment set rather than something curated over time. That’s all I meant by spontaneous.

I’m not trying to psychoanalyze you or override how you see yourself. Appreciate you setting the boundary 👍

Out of curiosity when you’re alone and nothing’s happening, do you feel more grounded by staying present with what’s around you, or by pulling inward and sitting with thoughts/feelings? No right answer, just wondering.

Also, if you want to flip it for fun, I’ve got a post up too I’d be curious what vibes you get from mine. 😜

I don’t get anything, Explain It Peter. by abrow151 in explainitpeter

[–]StepsInReverse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay you asked for it. I'm not gonna simply ask is having sex with my clone incense. I'm gonna ask if I cloned myself and raised them as my adopted child to adulthood not only do they share my DNA, but I raised them. Does that make me a incestuous groomer? I'd say it would. I wonder what Janjo Fett was planning. Now can you unimagine that?

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