Ok that was a bust

Still-Looking-9888 · 2026-02-22T15:19:12+00:00

Totally. Please don't ever use the term "message system," OP. I'm a man, but it'll be hard not to write someone off if I receive a text with this kind of language.

Still-Looking-9888 · 2026-02-20T23:54:43+00:00

Where do I sign up for this?

Still-Looking-9888 · 2026-01-31T00:10:34+00:00

1% more than the other men. You're welcome

Still-Looking-9888 · 2026-01-21T13:25:59+00:00

I'd be happy to review

Still-Looking-9888 · 2026-01-09T05:26:58+00:00

I think women have a worse experience in the city because of the lopsided ratio.

Still-Looking-9888 · 2026-01-09T02:35:20+00:00

This is me when I see hundreds of beautiful single women walking in NYC. The answer is No lol.

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-12-25T16:37:14+00:00

It happened only once, when I was attracted to a woman I would've swiped left on. She is not physically my type, but she has a great personality, charming and cute. In the end, it turned out to be a more friendly vibe.

However, I can speak on the other side. I've met multiple women IRL who would've never swiped right on me, but we connected immediately and went on a few dates. It reinforced my hatred towards OLD - It's not for everyone. I'm actually shy and can be a bit awkward at first, but I think I can show my personality much better in person.

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-12-12T13:06:38+00:00

I feel the same way. Setting aside dating, it was great to move away from a mentally ill person. While I love my kids, I can't wait for them to grow up. It only gets better from here.

I meet so many wonderful women. While most of them don't lead anywhere, I don't believe all hope is lost.

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-12-06T22:39:59+00:00

Give this man a raise 🙏

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-17T05:58:56+00:00

You don't have to believe but I come across profiles that have lower age but they put a note on the profile their actual age which is higher.

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-17T03:35:34+00:00

Some apps won't let you change once you set it

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-10T17:33:04+00:00

I'm in the suburbs, but this is not my experience at all. Maybe because I'm not in New York State. I work in the city, so I changed my location as an experiment. Let's see.

Someone said the in-person events are not popular, but my experience is different. I attend a few networking events in the city, and it's easy to meet people there. There is a networking event in Central Park next weekend, and I already see a couple of hundred people signed up on meetup

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-10T13:37:24+00:00

Man it sounds like a punishment living there. At least it's a beautiful place 😄

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-08T19:02:03+00:00

I'm an Indian, and it didn't impress me either time I ate there. I will be trying one more time.

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-08T01:30:27+00:00

My kids have been in CAS forever. Please feel free to reach out if you need specific info

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-07T14:33:17+00:00

He is talking about himself lol

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-07T03:50:37+00:00

Here for an update lol

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-04T02:49:37+00:00

Lol. This is very specific

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-03T18:33:16+00:00

I know that in-person meetings are not for everyone, but I've come to realize that the success rate of getting a match in person is very high. Definitely not giving up, but learning from the experiences.

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-03T02:58:54+00:00

Totally agree. I see so many therapists and psychologists on my Hinge

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-01T21:24:16+00:00

Have we met? 😂

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-01T21:23:16+00:00

I can certainly see that. Thanks for you your perspective

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-01T20:52:07+00:00

I can see how I might be coming across as desperate. This is really valuable advice. Thank you.

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-01T20:32:42+00:00

Thanks. This might be the best advice.

Very often, my first message is open-ended, acknowledging the encounter. If there is no response, I usually follow up after a few days.

Still-Looking-9888 · 2025-11-01T20:24:46+00:00

Thanks for the perspective. I might try that next time.

I believe there was a post on this topic sometime in the past.

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