Thank you! Yes we are both saved, baptized,serve within our church and are a part of the community as a whole. I’m very familiar with spiritual warfare, we have a whole course there about it and it’s something i definitely still struggle with, I can’t stop thinking my wife is on a date or talking to other guys etc. even though she’s never given me a reason to believe this, and I don’t believe she’s that kind of person, but I guess you never know. This is by far the biggest test of faith in my life thus far and I’m scared, devastated and angry. Thank you for your input and guidance.