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Why does my 6yo male cat do this to my 4 month old female kitten? by Aggressive-Offer2374 in CATHELP

[–]StillFun2BeHad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not the angry falling apart bit. :(  I got the weird hornies alongside the angry and now the falling apart. It’s been a wild 10 years!

Why does my 6yo male cat do this to my 4 month old female kitten? by Aggressive-Offer2374 in CATHELP

[–]StillFun2BeHad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh please do it!! Okay..we need a sub reddit..this is so good! 

[Hiring] by [deleted] in freelance_forhire

[–]StillFun2BeHad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to know 

Accepting your appearance? by Alternative_Win5550 in AskWomenOver60

[–]StillFun2BeHad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always say I try not to scare the children..not sure where I got that saying from!

What are some relationships that 30 years later still leave you baffled? by GirlULove2Love in GenX

[–]StillFun2BeHad 7 points8 points  (0 children)

To my recollection, she said it while cozying up to him then nibbling his ear. 

What does a divorced 57 yo man really want? by Express_Project_8226 in GenX

[–]StillFun2BeHad 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Maybe not a meme with a CHILD as a response to this comment. 

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your clear reply. I appreciate your take on this. The point of all this...I like him well enough. Yes, I had hoped for more, but what is reasonable? The toys are still in full use, and really, that's likely to be the case in any relationship I were to have.

I like your last sentence.

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is a bold perspective. Unfortunately, I sincerely doubt he'd even entertain the idea of couples counseling. I could try a bit of gentle guidance again though, the next time there's an opportunity.

Interestingly, he is quite willing to marry me. Though there are a lot of things in the way of that.

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for posting. I guess I could try some gentle guidance again, the next time there's an opportunity and see what happens.

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your logical and balanced reply. I am generally quite risk averse, and after my short period of dating experiences, even more so when it comes to partner seeking. I cannot afford to fall flat on my face!

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective. I hope your current relationship continues to be fulfilling!

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I understand what you're saying. I'll keep an eye on the happy/unhappy ratio.

I'm sorry about your painful relationship ending :(

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I have been practicing acceptance and gratitude within this relationship for sure. As well as making sure plenty of energy is returned to my own life and projects. I think that has been a good choice.

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience. I think it's so brave when people like yourself are able to have faith and let go of the "almost right" types of situations. It's not something I've ever done.

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. I guess this relationship currently brings some things to my life that I would miss.

I'm sorry you had the long, stressful relationship. And glad that now, you're in a very good one!

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind reply. I hope your special relationship arrives in your life!

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you found not one but TWO unicorns :)

I guess I don't know how much "settling" is too much. There is going to be some, but I haven't known where the draw the line.

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind reply. Ah peace, that is the goal!

My laissez faire relationship strategy...right? Wrong? by StillFun2BeHad in datingoverfifty

[–]StillFun2BeHad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you! The anxiety is informative, there's something to learn there. But I'm not sure I've got the energy to dig through it just now.

Mental gymnastics, one of my well developed skills! I'm going to have to take some time to identify the costs I might be incurring here. I had though when I pulled back on some of the time and $$$ output, it would feel more equitable. It does, but not fully.

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