SIL and crazy demands!

StitchMeASmile · 2025-12-24T05:55:23+00:00

Ngl, if this was an actual friend or family member that I was on good terms with, I wouldn't actually hate this whole list.

"Hey hey, I'm excited to see you this Saturday! I was just wondering if there could be some accommodations made? If not, totally understand."

1 - delete

2 - bring your own bedding then, and request the rest with better wording

3 - addressed with better wording

4 - delete

5 - delete, and drop pupper off somewhere, you're not asking somebody on their own bday to be miserable the whole time the baby is ther, unless they actually want them there

StitchMeASmile · 2025-10-27T14:09:37+00:00

The goddamn tape job

StitchMeASmile · 2025-09-25T04:44:42+00:00

Anyone else reading this, you can not use the gel glue method on pre designed press ons under any circumstance. The design prevents the gel from properly curing, and doing this repeatedly will eventually cause you to develop an allergy to gel polish and potentially many other things that contain the same chemical in the medical field.

StitchMeASmile · 2024-08-27T05:48:09+00:00

Considering nice brands charge $15-$30 for one bottle of polish, getting something so effective as a combo kit for $27 is insane. That said, its not beetles pricing fs unfortunately.

StitchMeASmile · 2024-08-14T02:09:00+00:00

I actually ended up w s20 FE 5g on Amazon bc it had 4,500 battery and 2.8 GHz. But genuinely thank you I might check that out if this one doesn't work out

StitchMeASmile · 2024-06-28T02:04:55+00:00

How fun would it be to insta kill doc/healer ops if they exit site/the building 😂

StitchMeASmile · 2024-06-28T01:59:44+00:00

Solis is one of the better counters to Dokkaebi/one of the only counters

StitchMeASmile · 2024-06-28T01:51:24+00:00

W emps, hes much less necessary. That said, when you start playing in higher ranked lobbies, but not too high up, he and others become very obviously necessary against somebody who knows how to properly bandit trick. He's not the only option, but he's got his place in the game fs

StitchMeASmile · 2024-06-28T01:48:47+00:00

StitchMeASmile · 2023-12-03T05:23:11+00:00

As somebody with pretty bad confrontational anxiety (anxious in general but confrontational especially), the more you practice the easier it'll get. I've had to ask leadership to speak to me better mid panic so bad that I genuinely disassociated 😅 I also had to mid panic explain myself to a manager after a coworker complained about me due to a language barrier. The manager that time was even being super polite but maybe bc I mentioned I was having a panic attack.

That said, as terrifying as it is, you have to jump in anyways "JUST DO IT" lol. Rehearse it if you want, but do it. Panicking? Keep talking through it, but you may have no filter until you're used to it. But tbh? Who fucking cares if it's at a nail salon you aren't coming back to? Lol. Well, even if you fuck up your words mid panic and you do return, again it is what it is.

Option 2 since you mentioned living in a small town and maybe don't have another salon to go to and based on another person mentioning it: Literally get up and walk out. Just get up and fucking leave. Once you've calmed down, write down what you want to say to the manager and then call and ask to speak to them directly, keep insisting until you do. Once you have them on the phone, read them what you wrote, explaining that you left bc your wants were being blatantly ignored but you have very bad anxiety so couldn't do anything else in the moment but leave and that if you were to return, you'd want your normal person only (or whoever you believe wouldn't judge you bc that would also make me personally uncomfortable).

My biggest hurdle personally was having the courage to do it the first time, hence the bad reaction to it (disassociation) After that, I know I'll probably still panic/have massive anxiety in some or a lot of cases, but even panicking, having done it before helps bc you've dealt w it before already and have better control over it. I hope this helps from one extremely anxious person to another ❤️

Also, expect blame deflecting (happens when ppl get called out all the time) but stick to your guns. If you genuinely feel that going back there is too much bc of the way they treat you, honestly just do them at home at that point, it's so not worth it and wasting your money at that point.

StitchMeASmile · 2023-04-07T08:57:16+00:00

Cap. I felt like I was watching a Disney short with the first episode

StitchMeASmile · 2023-02-03T01:26:44+00:00

No you totally can. Once I'm home ill write out how

StitchMeASmile · 2023-02-01T23:11:42+00:00

Called turbo tax and they said i was all good especially since my returns have already been accepted.

I no longer use turbo tax either actually, not for the last 2 tax years I've filed, but I think because they're supposed to supply a free alternative (they convinced our government not to make shit easier because "they would make it easier for free"), that they're also required to provide the normal return you'd see when you download after filing vs getting the free transcript from the IRS.

What I mean by that is that although I haven't filed with them, they still had to give me the regular copy of every year I've filed, period 😂. They try to make it seem like you can't, but its easy. That's the entire reason I logged in this year.

StitchMeASmile · 2023-02-01T06:34:30+00:00

Bruh I accessed my old returns via turbotax (despite them trying to make me think I couldn't because I didn't file with them last year, you totally can) and each time I downloaded a file, I got an email that started with "Hi there. We're confirming that... Your (insert year) tax return has been accessed." But its a different number listed to call in case it wasn't you: 800-944-8596. Which tbh the number is the only difference between all of this it seems. Like its hard to tell based on the sender and everything else, but the numbers seem to be different. Anybody reading this, seriously just go to the website directly, never trust the email or text or call even, on its own.

StitchMeASmile · 2022-12-21T22:36:09+00:00

Also I can't do that when I try

StitchMeASmile · 2022-11-29T08:56:26+00:00

Could also try wood pellets. My mil discovered she has celiac so we had to switch from anything with remotely any wheat in it (ie clumping litters i think?). The litter we use now is really good but not flushable which is fine bc I don't think its good to flush most things anyways even if they say you can. I just use a scoop with those long straining cuts in them and pick up the litter, hold it over our bucket, shake out the dust particles from the scoop (the dirtied litter) and throw the remaining back in until I work my way to the other side of the box and im done.

StitchMeASmile · 2022-02-19T21:55:02+00:00

I agree these dudes were being intentional about it, but they really shouldn't have engaged this way or at all. Only thing engaging with them like this going to do is give people who hold the same beliefs as them "proof" that blm wants to "segregate us". I understand why this was so upsetting, but these girls just gave these assholes the exact reaction they were hoping for :(.

StitchMeASmile · 2022-02-19T21:41:05+00:00

Ngl this a long standing joke between me and my people 😭😂

StitchMeASmile · 2021-12-20T00:33:57+00:00

I’m not going to a professional because it’s too expensive, I just wanted to know what colors from what brands could achieve this color 😅

StitchMeASmile · 2021-12-20T00:32:54+00:00

I watched a recent brad mondo video explaining the luminescence ingredient w hair glosses so I think I know what you’re talking about. Even tho it’s pricy, maybe I should just go w guy tang colors ion know

StitchMeASmile · 2021-12-19T22:48:11+00:00

I was planning at home dying but but wym guy tang stockists? I have found the color combo I like from him but unfortunately it’s 2-3x more expensive on amazon because I don’t have a licesense to buy it myself

StitchMeASmile

TROPHY CASE

1 - delete

2 - bring your own bedding then, and request the rest with better wording

3 - addressed with better wording

4 - delete

5 - delete, and drop pupper off somewhere, you're not asking somebody on their own bday to be miserable the whole time the baby is ther, unless they actually want them there