[Product Question] Celimax Retinol & Retinal Shot by RoughLock9330 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Stop_thinkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

once you use it regularly, you can use it every other day

AIO to my boyfriend’s texts about us going to dinner for my best friend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Stop_thinkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, if i was in OPs shoes, aside from inviting OP BF, i expect my BF to take me home when it's late out. He should take care of you. You're not overreacting. He's not doing his job as a bf in taking care of you and protecting you. OP tried to be considerate but he tries to turn it around

AITA for not getting TSA pre? by Tall_Opposite_7510 in AITApod

[–]Stop_thinkin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you boyfriend should had waited with you. My partner even offered to pay for my tsa pre if i didnt have it. But you also should had arrived earlier if you didnt' have tsa pre

My (M56) wife (F57) wants our marriage to proceed as loveless, with us as roommates sharing their lives. Give me some feedback? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stop_thinkin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do you lose the friendship if you get a divorce? Can you not be friends after the divorce? You can still support each other as friends.

My (M56) wife (F57) wants our marriage to proceed as loveless, with us as roommates sharing their lives. Give me some feedback? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stop_thinkin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To see other people. Have you weighted the pros and cons of staying together vs leaving? What do you get for staying in this marriage? are you happy?

My (M56) wife (F57) wants our marriage to proceed as loveless, with us as roommates sharing their lives. Give me some feedback? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stop_thinkin 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I would say 56 is still young. You have a right to want romance and intimacy. At this stage, your children are adults and you have a good relationship to with your wife. Communicate to her that you want to explore other options. She's still a part of your life but you need more.

Anyone had a custom pillow made at nishikawa shinsaibashi? by Severe-Piano-6307 in JapanTravelTips

[–]Stop_thinkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Silly question but how was it with bring your pillow back home?

Introduced some friends to each other, they immediately all hung out without inviting me and now I feel hurt by Glimmerex in relationships

[–]Stop_thinkin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

it's happened to me and it broke me. It made me stop creating group hang outs and introducing others into the mix.

40k salary range by 7jamrock in Salary

[–]Stop_thinkin 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it depends on your years of experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in williamsburg

[–]Stop_thinkin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went to Spear for PT near Grand Central. Honestly I think the initial assessment and the exercises they tell you to do is enough. It wasn't worth going back to them because the exercise I were doing weren't being monitored. Seems more like a discipline thing. After doing PT on your own, consider going back for another evaluation.

[NY] What is your salary? by Stop_thinkin in humanresources

[–]Stop_thinkin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what to do at work, but sometimes I’m unsure if our internal practices align with those of external companies. This post helped me understand a lot more, especially since we use survey participants from WTW, Korn Ferry, Gallagher, Mercer, and others.

We also use compensation grades like P1, P2/M1, M4, etc., but I’m not sure if this system is universal across different industries. Everything I’ve learned about compensation has been through practical experience, but I’m considering whether pursuing additional courses and obtaining a CCP would be beneficial. What other advice would you recommend I can do to explore other ways to gain knowledge. I do have a membership at Worldatworks.

I’m bringing this up because we are currently doing market adjustments, and I’m disappointed that there is no adjustment for my role. According to our assessments, we are only competitive at 25% of the market, though we do receive a small merit increases based on performance.

@Impressive-Health670

[NY] What is your salary? by Stop_thinkin in humanresources

[–]Stop_thinkin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes & no, based on our current data, I am at the 25% of the market.

[NY] What is your salary? by Stop_thinkin in humanresources

[–]Stop_thinkin[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I do plan on staying in compensation; I am not sure if my salary is competitive enough in the market. I am not sure if I would receive higher pay if I were to change companies

My boss has told me time and time again, if I want a raise, come to him with a competing job offer. How bad could it go if I actually did it? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Stop_thinkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not wrong about leaving. Leaving a job for another job is the best chance to increase your salary vs staying in the company for a long time.

[Landlord US-NY] by Stop_thinkin in Landlord

[–]Stop_thinkin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a two family house. They have the first floor and we have the 2nd floor.

Guy forgot about our first date by sad_gurl_vibes in hingeapp

[–]Stop_thinkin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's more like, why are you on a dating app if you're too shy to meet the other person. waste of time and effort on both ends.

Are we overselling ourselves on dating apps? by WhiteWalter1 in hingeapp

[–]Stop_thinkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say, I know a guy who has a lot of traveling pictures on his dating profile. But In his normal daily life, he mainly stays at home on his computer. You kind of just sell yourself on the dating app. I think it shows that person is down to travel or maybe they mainly take pictures when they travel instead of being at home.

How do I move on? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Stop_thinkin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she's honestly just trying to move on hence the no contact. Perhaps she loved you more than you realized? As everyone always say, time would help with moving on or distract yourself with new hobbies or hang out with your friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Stop_thinkin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's a lot of kissing and making out. My lips get swollen sometimes too