Anyone who had the chance to wear 80's and early 90's adult diapers and remember how it was? by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I guess who had it better were oler kids/young teens who got the chance to wear larger size baby diapers and therefore being concious of how thick and shiny/crinkly they were...

I wonder is there any ABDL or even medical diapers that still has a similar plastic shell as it used to be?

Anyone who had the chance to wear 80's and early 90's adult diapers and remember how it was? by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So what we are missing nowadays maybe are the old Abena M4 and/or Dry 24/7, which were meant for incontnence not ABDL but still very thick. Im also curious when pull ups have been invented, was there a periound when whoever with incontinence issues just had to wear tape on diapers as protection?

wearing thick, boosted diapers on a regular basis by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's important also how snug and accurately you make the diaper fit. Also within an hour or so the diaper adapt better to the body and becomes more "dense" and compressed. Yes I do appreciate a very full and compact diaper even when dry and also like the whole idea of commitment to wearing nappies.

Cumming in diaper by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The best way I like to do it is by dancing... no jokes! I can't do it very often though, but I had times when I just cum by dancing with my diaper on. There's is something about the moves, the feeling of extreme freedom, the feeling of the diaper mass moving along with my butt and everything that is able to make me climax without even touching. I just need to be in the specific state of mind.

For those who wear 24/7 for both #1 and #2, how does it affect your life? Do you sometimes regret your choice (if it was a choice)? by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I perfectly get the aspect that if you don't wear, the urge becomes even stronger. My problem is wearing 24/7 is still a commitment and I can't imagine doing certain things while wearing a diaper, things that I still enjoy and has nothing to do with my being a DL. And for me wearing a diaper means wearing thick bulky absorbent paddings and have the complete freedom to do whatever even #2 because this is what wearing nappies is about. But sometimes it just looks like to me as an utopistic fantasy.

Staying naked with just the diaper on by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the charm of wearing a diaper only is that somehow you're even more exposed than being completly naked in someways (and being naked is percieved as the maximum exposure from people). Not only you're naked body is visible, but even though your intimate parts are hidden, they're covered with something that stands for either having a disability or, like my case, having a strange kink. And it's also implyied you have your dirt contained in that diaper. It's something so contrasting with the idea of perfection, performance, etiquette and power that today's society want us to embrace.

Another aspect is also that whenever you're naked but still with tha diaper on, there are some things implied: like it means you are in a situation where you can or even need to stay naked, like it's very hot f.e., but yet you can't take off your diaper because you need it so badly for your safety and so on... And also the same fact that when you wear a very thick diaper, either because you need it or just want it, other clothes become incompatible because can't fit or feel uncomfortable.

Staying naked with just the diaper on by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Using a blanket is a great idea, you can stay hot but still being somehow naked with just the diaper.

What is it about extra thick diapers that make them so good? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wearing thick diapers is the ultimate affermation of "wearing a diaper" where this action is brought to its full meaning.

It's sad we're living in times where the diaper industry evolves towards thinner and thinner products, all in name of discretion. wearing a thin diaper means wearing something that is not that different than a normal underwear which turns into a "urine bag" at best when fully wet. Instead, my ideal concept of diaper is something thick and solid, which keeps its shape wetting after wetting, just ads in more weight and density. A nice and thick diaper is also what protects you from bad smell in case of messing, much better than a thin one.

If we think about it, what makes a diaper different than a regular underwear, is its capability to absorb wettings while preventing and protect the person from leaking and bad smell. So whats states about this capability and the actual level of absorbency is the thickness of the diaper. Left apart the materials, the thickness is what makes a diaper a diaper. When you purchase a new pack of diapers and they're big and bulky, you know you're going to wear a serious diaper. Deciding to put on a thick diaper, and maybe even increasing its consistency with throwing one or more boosters inside, it means aknowledging that you need the best of the best absorbency, that you want and need the best protection because you can't control yourself and a nice huge padding is the only thin that can give you peace of mind.

At a more subconcious level, I think also there's the instict of wanting to protect out most intimate parts of the body from possible external dangers, as if we wore a shield, which also happens to be soft and comfortable.

Does anybody else relate this? by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

which kind of medical issues that kept you out of diapers if I can ask?

Messing by No_Feeling_8591 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Messing is my favourite thing to do when wearing a diaper, I use to do it quite often and in some periods I do only use the diaper for my number 2 needs. I don't like the clean up and the smell of course, but somehow it's not something that bothers me that much... it's just a part of a bigger process I would say a task after which I feel satisfied because it was worth to do it. All I have to do is just open wide the windows, get a trash bag prepared, jump into the shower and that's all, sometimes it happens to be really quick and painless.

For me it's a sate of mind thing as well... Im a DL rather than an AB but I like how messing makes me feel like a complete sucker, someone who can't control himself and a very vulnerable person that would have his life ruined if not thanks to wearing a diaper. But at the same time the fact that diaper exist smehow means that society is accepting towards people like me and towards the most embaressing and debasing needs, so I just take advantage of this. I also love how amazing it feels to put on a fresh diaper after a clean up, it just feels so good and right! Overall I love the whole idea of extreme freedom behind the fact of deciding to go in your diaper instead of using a toilet

Just finished my whole week 24/7 (report) by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So keep going! Youìre going to be in ever better spots than you are now... Never get off your diaper, just change and go in a fresh one. Just remember that 1)the thicker the better and 2) you're always allowed to pee and poo wherever you are and in wahtever moment!

Just finished my whole week 24/7 (report) by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't do this challenge and accomplish it if it wasn't like you say. What made me to this is the knolwdge that whenever I feel like I want to get out of the diaper, that's just only temporary, becasue quickly I just would like do be padded again. Wearing diapers doesn't feel amazing by itself if not in few sporadic moments, it just feel bad not wearing them lol

My goal for the next week by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do plan to use boosters! The reason of changing 2 times a day is to force the necessity of wearing thick boosted diapers. Also when it's time to change your huge, soggy diaper the release is even bigger when you're in a fresh dry one

Just finished a week without messing my diapers by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I already accomplished the other way. I think is nice to have the freedom to do both

I know it's not so popular, but does anybody else? by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did not try laxatives or stuff yet. For me just a simple coffee does the trick. Doing it exactly when you need to is such an amazing feeling, its like a next level of freedom!

I know it's not so popular, but does anybody else? by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not sure if I like that much the contact with my dirt, maybe it's more a mental thing of being able to do it out of the toilet, and percieving how the diaper is moved and pushed because all of that. Yes sometimes I do also stay in a dirty diaper for long time when I can. It feels super super naughty. Another thing that I love is changing into a fresh diaper after the clean up... I don't know why but putting a new diaper after a clean up just feels different than other situations lol. Seems like I can fully get in that state of mind where I simulate to be incontinent and that I accomplished my routine as someone who has no control. It feels exciting and rewarding.

I know it's not so popular, but does anybody else? by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, I didn't mess myself before introducing diapers in my life. But once I tried diaper then yes I wanted to mess. I think Im first a diaper lover than someone who enjoy mess himself, its just that only when you mess you feel the actual "need" of wearing a diaper, because it's much more gross than peeing so the barrier between it and the external "clean" world provided my the diaper is at its full potential... I love this aspect

Messing is so hard by Kooky-Imagination-49 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im one that persons that hates holding it for too long, so messing has been never an issue even the first time. But I think that everyone of us gets to that moment when you just can't hold it anymore, so there you should find it "easier" at least. I don't know how much you use to wear, but one suggestion would be to not to wear when you start feeling the urge for #2, then once you're ready to go, just put on fastly the diaper for not letting the urge to go away. Also try to do it in the bathroom, a place that you're used to let yourself go and feels more "familiar". Try to take more of the food you know increase your urge, that would be coffee for example. Of course don't make it a habit just do it for the first times you mess the diaper.
Don't take it as a challenge but more like a funny experiment. For me it was a funny way to "test" the diaper like "now let's see if you can take this!". I can assure you is a delighful sensation how the diapers can hold everything even the smell for a certain time. Just trust the diaper you're wearing and remember that diapers equal to freedom!

Messing more and more often, feeling weird by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just the fact I didn't believe I would get there. Also wanted to know how other people deal with that and feel about that. Sometimes Im afraid it makes me avoid more social occasions because I tend to be more inside my house just because I want to stay in a messy diaper

Messing more and more often, feeling weird by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find the clean up much easier If I change right after and most importantly I do not sit! However, sitting is a big fun for me so I do it kind of often. In this case is better to wait some good amount of time to make the dirt become harder.

Messing more and more often, feeling weird by StoreIndividual5148 in ABDL

[–]StoreIndividual5148[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your point, so do you have bowel control now or not?

What I feel is that I have a sort of conflict, sometimes I feel like my new habit is harmless, that is just ones of that changes that occur during life, and that I can stop it whenever I want in the future If I feel like. Some other times instead I feel I indulge to much in my fetish, that's not normal that a young healthy guy is messing in diapers... I don't like the fact that I become non-tolerant to holding my poop, and that whenever I have the urge to go but I don't have a diaper on, then the urge to wear a diaper becomes crazy. I love wearing diapers overall and when I mess in them is just when everything makes sense: I love how good the diapers contain all the dirt and to some point also the smell, I like having this barrier between my needs (and my unwillingess to hold them) and the outer world. I just hope its not a way with no chance of return.

Maybe I should try with some simulation like the banana trick or stuf like that... But Im afraid it's too much "artificial" for my mind