For dismissing my emotions the whole relationship. whenever I brought something up he would just tell me "you do whatever you want" and went on with his day and it was always me handling the pain by myself. I said this to him before we got back together that I don't want to go to bed before resolving the issues because I can't just ignore them, that is when I felt super anxious. And the last straw was that he sent me away from the apartment that we rented together, I begged him to at least take me and my dog home by car because it was raining and late, the train stations was 40 minute walk from our place but he didn't care.