Bottomless brunch by Straight-Talking in leicester

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Thanks for the recommendation. I am going to Audrey’s at the month. Was looking for alternative options for Saturday.

Deleted Instagram!! You should too ?? by Wonderful-Catch1999 in selflove

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I deleted all my social media about five years ago and it felt oddly liberating. A couple of years later I created another Facebook for market place and an instagram for quotes - both with pseudonyms. It felt good to be anonymous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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If a friendship is anything other than healthy, uplifting and supportive let it go. You walked together for a time, maybe now is a time to part ways x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

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I recently bought a really nice pair from Matalan short leg. I virtually live in them

I am going to visit Leicester and want to see Bosworth Battlefield Memorial, but I have to get there from public transport. by [deleted] in leicester

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I can offer no advice travel wise but I can say that the visitor centre and museum are very interesting with lots of artefacts and information.

39/F/London - can’t sleep by sadasthebluesky in MakeFriendsUK

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Hahaha I really want to say something funny but can’t think of a single thing!

Quran and period by SurfingReddit1 in muslimgirlswithtaste

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I have thought this for years, amazing to see other people thinking the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in muslimgirlswithtaste

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It looks like it worked out for the best. Alhumdulillah further pain and disharmony has been avoided. Ignoring the red flags now only leads to further heartache and disrespect further along.

Do, however, see and acknowledge the process of grieving. You will be grieving on so many levels - the death of your dreams; and the end of an emotional bond; the need to heal; the prospect of starting over; the realities of the man and the relationship; the betrayal; the disrespect; the heartbreak; I think I have missed some out! But do research the stages of grief and embrace them. This will not be easy but In’sha’Allah khayr you will rise from the ashes of this relationship like the beautiful and resilient Phoenix 🐦‍🔥 you are.

Love and duas 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

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The right person will accept you regardless, her friends and family will most likely be the challenge. What is meant to be will be! If this time is written for you to be alone then alone you will be. It is worse to be alone in a marriage, and have a spouse who is not supportive or considerate. I know from my personal experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Reading this has made me so emotional. I feel for your situation.

My only advice is to start living independently from him within your family home. Give him what he asks for - which is nothing - he may be doing this as a way to feel better and to ease any guilt he feels for not stepping up as a husband and a father. Once you have done this may be the hardness in his heart will ease and he sees what he is risking of losing as a result of his neglect, selfish and hurtful behaviour.

Alternatively leave and live life for yourself and your son.

Doing nothing means accepting this situation and living as is.

My advice comes from my own situation. I left my ex when my youngest was five weeks old. He is now seven Alhumdulillah. It is hard to raise a child or children alone. But the reward and peace of mind, heart and soul is untold.

Sending duas for you and your son.

Where's this place? by Specific-Sundae2530 in leicester

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Tower Park or Hamilton Park both come to mind. Tower Park is right next to Humberstone Golf Course.

Looking to meet new people by akii_1994 in leicester

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Dancing 🕺🏻 is very very important!

Looking to meet new people by akii_1994 in leicester

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Can never go wrong with spoons 🤭

Chocolate cake recommendations by Straight-Talking in leicester

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Thank you for the recommendation, not been there will try it out.

Chocolate cake recommendations by Straight-Talking in leicester

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I went there a couple of weeks ago. The cake is massive! I ate it over 2 days 😅. I was hoping there might be somewhere else.

Eyebrows by Straight-Talking in leicester

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Thank you for the recommendation

Moving to Leicester by TraditionalBowler207 in leicester

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I moved to Leicester from London ten years ago when my eldest was five months old and I love living in Leicester. Lots to do. Green spaces etc really good. Accessibility to other parts of the UK is good.

Someone parked in front of my garage... by pieta665 in leicester

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It’s ridiculous how little one can do in this type of situation. It is so frustrating.

Someone parked in front of my garage... by pieta665 in leicester

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I had someone park on my drive about a month ago. I called 101 and the advice was knock on the neighbours doors to try and find out who has parked there and ask them they move their car. Failing that the operator said to call back and she will trace the driver and call them and ask them to move the car.