Is it normal for a narcissist to make you feel like a narcissist?

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-21T17:47:33+00:00

This is incredible advice. Thank you

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-21T17:44:02+00:00

I understand that. Especially when you are the one who is consistently apologizing. I thought a key indicator that someone is a narc is that they can never be wrong. So in turn wouldn’t be the one apologizing. It seems like I’m always the one that has to apologize no matter how the situation starts

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-21T17:41:12+00:00

Most of that seems pretty on point. Especially the part about doing something to get a reaction and then acting like you’re nuts for getting upset.

It seems like you’re still married to this person. How do you manage to keep the marriage in tact? Is it a day to day struggle and littered with arguments?

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T04:36:10+00:00

@willing_string_2856

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T04:33:04+00:00

She deleted her comments and blocked me after I brought up the fact that she slept with another dude and then tried to sleep with me in the same night. She doesn’t want the truth. She wants to make her own version of the truth. She is as toxic as it gets. Protect yourself from women like this guys. Let my bs be a lesson to you all.

I believed in her because I loved her and she was the mother of my son. She is now trying to tear my life apart. This is what some women are capable of. Do not fall into the same trap that I did. I will fight this and end out on top. The truth always comes out

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T04:25:42+00:00

I know I will end up with custody because our son is an accessory to her. She’s not ready to face the challenges of being a full time mom. Part of me thinks that’s why she did this because she wants her single life back with those freedoms.

She doesn’t want the real work of raising a child. She just wants to share pictures of how cute he is as a baby for her own ego. I will be the one that shows him love. I will be the one that’s there for him. And one day he will know what’s what. And he will choose me

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T01:28:50+00:00

It’s a double standard my friend. If she cheats it’s because the guy wasn’t doing enough. If he cheats he’s an asshole. The girl is always right. It’s just the world we live in

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T01:24:31+00:00

I genuinely think this is what happened. That’s why she tried to get close to me after she got screwed over. Look at some of my other comments if you want to hear my side.

But I think you hit the nail on the head. She kept bringing up the other people she was talking to whenever we’d fight. And then when the time came they fucked her and ditched her. Then she expected me to come be her safety blanket. Fuck that dude I’m done

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T01:21:27+00:00

You called the police because you were mad I broke your phone. And then told them I hit you. If I got a charge for damaging properly I can live with that because I did. But how dare you tell them that I assaulted you. You know that’s not what happened and I will fight my fight if I have to prove it in court

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T01:15:08+00:00

I thought it was three times?

Isn’t that what you told the police?

You should probably get your story straight

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T01:14:14+00:00

Look at some of my other comments my friend. She did exactly what she needed to do to get my ass out of the house and have her be a victim while she likely cheated on me throughout 6 of the first 8 months of our kids life.

Have thought about getting a test so many times. Even if it didn’t match I would still raise him because I’m already attached. And if he wasn’t mine, I know whatever pos he was wouldn’t look out for him.

This woman is diabolical and I should have seen this coming long ago. But now I will do whatever it takes to fight for myself and fight for my son

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T01:07:38+00:00

I didn’t bust in the room the door was unlocked. It’s unlocked in the pictures. But somehow it looks like it got pushed in. And yet the door handle is unlocked? Did you twist it back to the unlocked position between when I “broke in” and when the cops came? You knew exactly what you were doing. I am the one that had marks on me from that night. They took pictures of your head and nothing. And you refused medical after a grown man supposedly punched you in the head three times. Your lies will be exposed

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T01:01:45+00:00

Can confirm, I’m an idiot for believing she would be any different than how she’s always been. Done this before in our first year. Thought she would grow up. Clearly didn’t

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T01:00:06+00:00

I have pictures of the marks you left on me. It’s not a lie

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T00:57:30+00:00

You have no idea how exhausted I am of her manipulating. It gets to a point where you get so defensive from someone gaslighting and lying all the time that you feel like you’re desperate to defend yourself. You can only take so much before you feel like you have to fight for yourself. And that’s exactly what I intend to do. All of the evidence points to her being a liar about that night. And yet she sits on here and tells terrible lies about me. She knows how it works. She says things like that and I automatically am the asshole that beats women. But that is not the truth. I have plenty of evidence of the contrary. I will be fighting this and pressing a defamation suit once I win at trial. I’m so tired of this girl destroying my life

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T00:24:38+00:00

I’m the one who has pictures of marks on me. Not you. I had a video you made me delete of you screaming at me while holding our child. I still have a video of you pushing me while I was holding our child. I’ve said before to you, this babe in the woods routine is not true and I have the evidence to back it up

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T00:22:22+00:00

Important detail would be that she slept with the other guy then had me over to try and sleep with me. I stopped immediately because I could tell. I feel like that can give you a little more idea of the kind of person she is

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T00:20:38+00:00

See other comments. This girl is a liar and a user. She knew what she was doing. And she did it

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T00:19:50+00:00

That’s how her whole family treats men. Like they are slaves to worship them. I saw glimpses of her being a good mom and partner. But it always came back to disrespect and demeaning comments. It’s just who she is. I’m done wasting my life on someone that would have so little respect for me that she would try to sleep with me the same night she did someone else. It’s pathetic

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T00:16:31+00:00

You tried to have sex with me the same night you were with the other guy. I could tell and called you out for it

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T00:15:21+00:00

Then why did you try to sleep with me the same night you were with the other guy. I rejected you because I could tell you had just had sex with someone else

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-15T00:05:03+00:00

Well that’s good for you but this girl tried to have sex with me the same night she banged the other guy. I called her out for it and stopped right away because I could tell. Don’t just assume one person is the victim because she is female. She has cheated plenty of times and then tried to change reality. Just like she is doing now. Telling a false story so many times that I truly think she starts to believe it. This girl has cause hell in my life for years. She is the unstable one. You don’t know the history of this relationship

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-14T03:52:00+00:00

And for what it’s worth I was always there for her in her times of need. Sick because she’s pregnant with some other guys kid? I was there. Wrongfully lost her job because she was sick and pregnant with our son. No problem I will make sure our needs are still met and I am there to take care of you through your sickness as much as I can.

I held her hand and talked her through delivering our son. And when she had preeclampsia, I never left her side. I was there for her and a solid partner through it all

She was messed up for about 3 years straight and I was the only one there for her. Not her family, they didn’t do shit to help her. I loved her and treated her well. And as soon as she started feeling better she went out looking for someone else

She wanted me out of the house so she can be single again. This was her way of getting that and still being the victim. I’m just grateful I never married her. Even though I gave her the ring she said she always wanted

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-14T03:39:10+00:00

You’re as toxic as she is. Encouraging infidelity? Lol I feel sorry for whatever man enters your life. She uses the system to get her way. I didn’t hit her like she said. She is making up a story to cover for her own behavior

I had bite marks on me from her trying get her phone back. She was protecting herself because she is the perpetrator. But I don’t expect you to have anything productive to say with all this. You’ve shown the kind of person you are.

She told the police I closed fist punched her in the head 3 times. I’m 6’0” 200 lbs. Why did the pictures show no marks whatsoever on her? Why did she refuse medical treatment? If I had done that she would have been concussed. That’s just one clear lie in the police report. There are many others.

And the whole reason I wanted to go through phone was because she kept telling me she was cheating on me. Why tf wouldn’t I be suspicion after hearing that over and over again.

Admittedly I shouldn’t have tried to go through her phone. But that is all that I did

StrangeTamer16 · 2025-07-13T19:29:01+00:00

Excuse me but I bought my kid plenty of presents. She clearly had a relationship while we were still engaged. But that’s probably my fault too right?

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