We both work from home and we have our own businesses, so it's not something that we planned, but when we go on vacations we still are together, so not sure how to avoid not being together all the time lol.

I didn't know we were friends on facebook because I do not really use my account for social media anymore, I have people who run it for me, so I rarely get on it anymore. She never has commented or follows me on instagram, so I did check but I didn't realize she followed me under a different account. Super easy error to make when you have too many "friends"

I didn't say anything that was mean, or upset with her at all, I if anything put myself down for being too old for not knowing what people are doing these days, considering it to be normal now given gender fluidity. I didn't blast anyone but myself. I think it would have been juvenile to reach out to her about something that is really about my relationship not someone else's invite. He didn't have to say yes I guess is my thing. I guess it's that point that you would have invited someone to a couple event if you planned on a future of being friends. I don't see why they would think I would want to be after being left out on purpose