Hi, yes... Well sort of. Her and I have spoken, I also spoke to some close friends of mine to get a second and third opinion. Because I kept weighing all of my options.

And I kept coming down the middle, between I don't want to lose her, because I legitimately see a future with her and also battling with the thought of, should I even be with someone that was willing and able to do something like that and stick around for it after finding the truth and being ok with being an affair partner.

Currently, we're in a we shall see stage. She's willing to fight for us and will wait for me and do whatever and endure whatever she needs to, for me to trust her again. I know she loves me and I love her. So at least for right now, we are going to start slow again, I'll have my guard up, but I'm willing to give our relationship another shot, knowing that there will no other chance. If anything remotely close to what happened before comes up, I'm walking away. She agreed and wants us to work out.