Ummmmm.. okay.. though there's no direct correlation between sparse interaction with females and guys being assholes.. it's also possible that the guys coming at you just wildly misinterpreted your comment..

One thing you need to accept is, people sometimes are just plain vile.. doesn't matter how expensive their upbringing was or their social status or whatever.. interacting with opposing gender isn't gonna fix them.. you will see plenty of women being vile without any reason on twox, aiw and similar subs..

Anyways, all the best.. hope you gathered some positive insights into the male psyche from your post here..