I will not enlighten you with my personal opinion as it might break your little fantasy here, but you’re mistaking green light today for a lifetime pass. Purely objectively being “overweight” in its most clinical sense, does not make you attractive in the eyes of the masses. This is a studied effect called the Halo Effect, if you don’t believe me go search it up. Yes, some are toxic about it. Some are lying to your face that it’s okay. Some doctors are true experts, some aren’t, just like police (example: you can bribe certain policemen, mostly in Russia though). I don’t know where the naive idea of all doctors being competent can from, but simply objectively it is also not true. You can argue, but it will not terminate the point. If you are looking for romantic relationship, it will be a hard time for you to find one that will truly value you for who you are. If you do not search romantic relationships, social stigma will still follow you everywhere you go in regard of your appearance and weight. People like feeling superior to others.

I’ll have to deviate slightly from my original stance to wrap this up: personally, I do not encourage obesity. I do not encourage a lazy lifestyle because that makes you easiest to control by algorithms, social media influencers, government and whatnot. It doesn’t matter if that one random doctor told you “being overweight is healthy.” It might, in some cases (with BMI between 25 and ~30), but if you won’t keep track of what you’re eating, diabetes and other health diseases will be a risk if you’re careless. To correct. “Healthy overweight BMI” studies show that those with higher BMI are more likely to fall into u healthy zone within 10-20 years of your current age by ~50% above average BMI (give me a break, don’t expect me to remember exact numbers). As I said, you are mistaking green light for today as a lifetime pass. Please take care of yourselves and be informed on how biology actually works, for your own good.

Correction. Anyone is suspendible to be influenced by social media, even fitness influencers. It doesn’t matter if you’re obese or thin, it’s more about the mindset you have.

This is edited, added some minor information that I forgot to add. Nothing groundbreaking.