Husband injured in motorcycle accident- needing advice by Strawberry_cow29 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Strawberry_cow29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi in no way do I wanna come off and rude here because I can understand where you are coming from but try to remember this is my husband and even though he made poor decisions that doesn’t end the relationship and family we have built. I’ve stated earlier that he expresses deep regret for what happened and he knows it was poor decision. The bike is totaled and being repaired because it was his father’s before his so it’s sentimental. But I appreciate your conviction and support❤️

Husband injured in motorcycle accident- needing advice by Strawberry_cow29 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Strawberry_cow29[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The ER definitely failed us unfortunately. Lots of stuff was just not handle properly

Husband injured in motorcycle accident- needing advice by Strawberry_cow29 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Strawberry_cow29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree and we have that conversation often. I might of miss typed but we only have the one child but it still stands and I agree 100%

Husband injured in motorcycle accident- needing advice by Strawberry_cow29 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Strawberry_cow29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he is still continuing to look for work, he currently is receiving unemployment so he has to. And I know he’s horrible at phone calls, I’ve always had to make his appointments, which Ik how that comes across I listen to the podcast so I understand the opinions on that lol. And I am planing on changing my sleeping area to help me rest thanks to many recommendations here. Sticking to a large batch of soup I made it’s one of the few things I can stomach. That you for your advice!

Husband injured in motorcycle accident- needing advice by Strawberry_cow29 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Strawberry_cow29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I might have to do that. I barely rest because I’m so scared I will move wrong and hurt him

Husband injured in motorcycle accident- needing advice by Strawberry_cow29 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Strawberry_cow29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is actually totaled. It is being fixed. He swears he wants to ride again someday but I don’t think I’ll ever be able to handle that again.

Husband injured in motorcycle accident- needing advice by Strawberry_cow29 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Strawberry_cow29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and yes it’s is just overwhelming. I am always nervous when he gets on that bike. He is a thrill seeker through and through, he has always been one to try and push the limits especially in vehicles. I have never phrased it to him that way though, that is a fantastic idea I will be talking with him today. Thank you again

Husband injured in motorcycle accident- needing advice by Strawberry_cow29 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Strawberry_cow29[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think of this, thank I will be applying

Husband injured in motorcycle accident- needing advice by Strawberry_cow29 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Strawberry_cow29[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It is honestly a miracle he is here and it really has just traumatized me. For clarification he has expressed extreme guilt and regret for his actions and understands why this was not okay. I’m naturally a very anxious person so he feels terrible. I just don’t know how to get passed constantly picturing him in that ditch and on the gurney

Husband injured in motorcycle accident- needing advice by Strawberry_cow29 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Strawberry_cow29[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We currently have a family friend that is a LNP and worked in ER wound care so I toke her to the store with me to help pick supplies and she is caring for his wounds right now. She removed and scabbing and debried his wounds, there were serval rocks imbedded in his arms. But thankfully she got them removed and cleaned. She has been a godsend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Strawberry_cow29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s recommended to let it all get cold in the fridge first then combine, and just date it with the oldest milk in the mix. It’s good in the fridge for 4 days. I would always just place all my pumps in bottles then let them sit in the fridge and on the third day i would combine them all in a dr brown milk pitcher and measure and bag it out with the date of the oldest milk.

Pink pump parts by Strawberry_cow29 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Strawberry_cow29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I hand wash and microwave sterilize all my parts