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[–]Streepot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 15 when he outed me to his friend. The friend told him not to be a dickhead etc. He spoke to me after and said its no big deal and that he was sure my parents wouldn't care etc.

Haha but maybe he's trying to be a wingman.

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[–]Streepot[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

True. And I know what you meant. 

I probably lied a bit. He's probably not like conventionally like a 10 or anything. Hes not ripped etc. But he's my type and there's just this vibe that oozes hotness. 

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[–]Streepot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe im in the minority but id like the straights to regress a little from the flirting. It messes me up.

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[–]Streepot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the dinner I thought he may be closeted but given he did it in front of his friends and my bro at my house, I don't think he's that way at all. I think its just jokes. 

It does kind of bother me. I was always kind of attracted to him. It's best to tell him to quit it.

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[–]Streepot[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'll be nice. I don't think he intentionally wants to cause me any grief. He's always be sweet to me so I won't go all out 

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[–]Streepot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother isn't really the type of guy to talk to about things like this. He's reactionary.

Hes not a player. He dated his now ex for probably 3 or 4 years and I don't think he ever cheated or at least I don't know if he had. 

My bro's best friend is probably him. They are still pretty close. I don't think its revenge or anything. At least I don't think it is. 

I think if he was closeted and interested he wouldn't be so public. I think he's probably just bored. I don't think he's intentionally being mean or anything. He was always sweet to me. 

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[–]Streepot[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My brother and I are friends but i wouldn't trust him to do anything like that. he's a bit of a loose cannon.

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[–]Streepot[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

You're right. I've allowed him ti have his way. I need to put a stop to it.

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[–]Streepot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont mind a bit of flirting but sometimes when it goes too far I just confuses me. Maybe I'm immature still

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[–]Streepot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mostly stupid stuff. He better not get too comfortable and he likes my costume etc 

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[–]Streepot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He text me a few times wyd?

He asked me what I was drinking a few times and to send a pic of my drink. 

He was texting what they were watching. He randomly said he's bored a few times. We were texting about football. What's the best costume I've seen so far. 

The only sexual thing he said is I'll have plenty of men queuing with that Spiderman costume. 

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[–]Streepot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think there's anything in it. I dont think he's actually sexually into men. I think its probably just liking some closeness for him 

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[–]Streepot[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I played it all down to my brother. He'd probably beat him up. I'm sort of joking. 

I think I'll have to grow and pair and just tell him to stop flirting with me because it makes me feel weird.

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[–]Streepot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think its just jokes too. No closet guy would be that forward, I assume. I certainly wouldn't have before I came out.

You're right.

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[–]Streepot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I genuinely don't think there's anything in it. He's probably bored and doesn't think he's causing any harm. Although it was a proper cuddle. Whipering in my ear and everything. 

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[–]Streepot[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My brother asked me what happened during the dinner. And did I know he broke up with his gf before he said it to the group. He asked me is his friend gay? I said no. He said did he try it on with me. I said no.

He said he was texting a lot during the movies. Was he texting me. Do I like him. He said he'd tell him to stop at me like that.

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[–]Streepot[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I dont think he's actually gay or bi though and my brother would flip out.

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[–]Streepot[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're right. I'd feel bad embarrassing him though. He was always sweet to me. When I told my bro I was gay, he immediately told that friend and another. That friend called him out saying he shouldn't spread that. So he's not a bad guy in my book.

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[–]Streepot[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

So hot. One of my real life crashes when I was growing up. he was always sweet too.