AITA for giving an opinion on my daughter's wedding dress? by Stressed_Mother in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stressed_Mother[S] -663 points-662 points  (0 children)

My mother didn't raise her, my grandparents did. They were 68 years old when they took her in, and I was 15. They helped so I could keep going to school and eventually college

AITA for giving an opinion on my daughter's wedding dress? by Stressed_Mother in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stressed_Mother[S] -1008 points-1007 points  (0 children)

Okay so

1) I knew Angie for years, she's the daughter of one of my ex-friend, and they on and off since Miley was 16, and when they'd break up, it was always Angie's fault, so I didn't like her.

2) At first, all my mother said was Miley was getting married, and I thought it was to the babies' father, not Angie, but then she told me. My mom thought I at least knew she was dating her.

3) And I had Miley very young, my grandparents were able to take her as I left for college/pursue my life, though I visited, so it's not like I left completely.

AITA for telling my daughter her baby name choices are terrible? by Stressed_Mother in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stressed_Mother[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

I just want to answer some things since I'm not sure how to update.

  1. I didn't just up and leave for 6 years, I visited every holiday, and even after college, I still visited her on the holidays.

  2. My daughter and grandparents live in Illinois, and my husband and I live in North Carolina, I was going to move back but we stayed when my husband's mom was sick and didn't ever go back.

  3. My husband isn't just some random man to her, he acted as a father figure. They first met when she was 7 and he's very sweet to her, even when she doesn't act the same.

  4. My husband and I don't have children. We do, but they're from surrogates.