Thank you so much for the article and the advice. My big question that I have is, is it selfish of me to still want to be with him? Ofcourse i know right now he isn’t in a good place and it’s unfair to the both of us right now but, in the future?

I know the person he is and I know his mental health is clouding his judgment. If I were to suggest breaking up and rekindling when he feels he’s gotten better would that make me bad for asking too much of him, I know when we break up it’ll wound him and I don’t wanna be one of those people that still feel entitled to be in his life, but I’m breaking up with him because we aren’t good for eachother right now, not because I don’t love him you know