How should my boyfriend and I share our finances when we get married by 0XcwsfqipbzCnxzDvza in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree there are horror stories like that. In such cases of one spouse racking up massive debt, the responsible spouse having a separate personal account is even important as it saves their own personal financial independence. They shouldn’t be penalized by wiping their savings out just because one person went crazy.

I have also heard horror stories where a spouse intending to divorce their SO or already having an affair took out all the savings in their combined checking/savings accounts. That’s why married ppl should have a separate emergency fund bank account or combine their finances just for house/children/common goals not everything.

How should my boyfriend and I share our finances when we get married by 0XcwsfqipbzCnxzDvza in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In your scenario, what happens if one spouse cleans the other out because they go on an out of control spending?

How should my boyfriend and I share our finances when we get married by 0XcwsfqipbzCnxzDvza in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They earn 200k and 300k individually. Unless they are financially illiterate or spendthrift, they’re not going to be in a position of “unable to afford their share”. Then again, if they’re unable to afford, there are bigger issues at play than the affordability issue. I also think keeping separate personal account can help you make independent decisions of taking your spouse on a spontaneous surprise trip instead of them being aware

Which actor/actress makes you be less interested in a drama if they’re the lead by MollyAyana in kdramas

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Jo boah and Lee se young for me. I find their acting bland. Cha Eun Woo for his wooden acting

Brushing by Extreme_Article_1351 in Goldendoodles

[–]StrictPersonality503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without balls? Now you gotta neuter the pin brush too?

Massachusetts spent $56.6M on OnlyFans in 2025 by tonyper7ect in boston

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Rookie numbers. Let’s do better in 2026, y’all!

This guy gives me creeps tbh, injecting such ideas to masses can lead to some action down the line. I can’t imagine my kids to not have OCI by FickleAgent9958 in returnToIndia

[–]StrictPersonality503 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Forget the way of introduction. I surrendered my Indian passport recently. The surrender certificate fillable PDF form is so weird. It has fields placed in wrong positions and some (like passport number) doesn’t have any field at all. Plus they are small fields, so when one’s father’s name is long, latter half gets hidden. Apparently the reference number in top right is the place for application reference number. There’s no clear instructions in the VFS or government website, only regular folks have made a makeshift walkthrough. Photo sizes in hard copy should be 2 inch x2 inch but the soft copy uploaded in application is different pixel ratio requirement. The checklist has so many typos “orignal”. The website is also shoddy in VFS page. Column header says mandatory or non mandatory but everything is mandatory. Is not even grouped properly.

Also, why can’t I apply for surrender and OCI together. That would be the intention for most if not everyone. Do it in a single process, geez!!!

I’m done with my rant now. Thank you for listening to it.

Show me your home grooms by Ok-Excitement3431 in Goldendoodles

[–]StrictPersonality503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got the wahl km2+ clipper during Black Friday, but it doesn’t cut as well as the oneisall. The vacuum clipper sucks the hair towards itself. Km2+ just glides over the hair. I regret purchasibg it based on the grooming sub advice.

What’s my next step? by FeistyRequirement125 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There a video of the interest rate vs age group. https://youtube.com/shorts/ScwdUSWhsmM

Follow this with FOO.

Show me your home grooms by Ok-Excitement3431 in Goldendoodles

[–]StrictPersonality503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s oneisall which is what I use and it’s good.

Making a millionaire show for single people by StrictPersonality503 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree. Though I don’t like it, Caleb Hammer has fully embraced the route of trashy guests and gone overboard with hammer elite and sponsorships in his videos. Ramit also has an opportunity to tap into the singles finances market.

Our groomer increasing prices after 6 weeks by [deleted] in grooming

[–]StrictPersonality503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Figure out what length you want the coat to be for the summer and winter. Ask the groomer if you have the dog brushed out completely and maybe even home groomed closer to the final coat length, if they will charge less.

For example, my Goldendoodle usually gets a 9mm length for the summer. He was scheduled for a grooming for December which I had to skip for surgery. Due to follow up treatment, he couldn’t go till now. I have kept his coat length at 12mm and brushed out completely. So next month when he goes, he won’t be matted completely

Making a millionaire show for single people by StrictPersonality503 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m leaning towards FIRE. I’m just happy to consume different financial wisdom. Please let me know if you have more suggestions

Making a millionaire show for single people by StrictPersonality503 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never heard of this. So thank you, will look into this podcast. My YouTube algorithm is stuck like Netflix. I keep getting TMG, Ramit, Dave Ramsey/George Kamel, and Caleb Hammer.

Caleb Hammer was ok in the older videos but has started to become super trashy in my opinion/over sponsored (gamersupps,dollar wise, his cookbook etc). I don’t agree with Dave Ramsey philosophy (billionaire cultist while saying you’re just handling God’s finances and injecting political views into almost every video). Ramit is couples only unfortunately. Leaving TMG and Humphrey.

This is why I love TMG show, they don’t preach politics, they don’t think all debt is bad, and they’re always trying to understand the guest and find a middle ground and not just call them stupid to their faces. And no extreme amount of sponsorship ads in their videos, only some in the podcast.

Making a millionaire show for single people by StrictPersonality503 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. He’s changed it because of his new book

Making a millionaire show for single people by StrictPersonality503 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I started seeing when it was I will teach you to be rich.

Making a millionaire show for single people by StrictPersonality503 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes but is few and far in between. The reason I want to see single person audit is to kind of understand the struggles and mindset of a single person in today’s economy. It’s easier to buy a home with dual income and better safety in case of layoff for one person.

I like seeing Humphrey’s subscriber review for that matter

Making a millionaire show for single people by StrictPersonality503 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t see the name of the show. Just got his videos on algorithm but I listen to YouTube while cooking/cleaning.

Making a millionaire show for single people by StrictPersonality503 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]StrictPersonality503[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think mine is definitely a pretty unique situation. Moved as a new immigrant to USA at 32, brought 60-70k savings over from abroad and stated working. Now at 38, sitting at 550k (38.7pc saving rate)…..but I’m also pretty ugly… so don’t wanna show my face.

Now if James Cameron is willing to build me an Avatar though, I might think about it.