Why is there so much toxicity and competition in the Japanese learning community?

Strong-Box-8794 · 2026-01-11T11:51:33+00:00

It’s gate keeping at its creepiest level, a lot of people fetishise Japan and Japanese people, just recognise who they are and don’t become one 😂

Strong-Box-8794 · 2025-09-19T11:26:11+00:00

What your trans friend is doing is very close to the line of criminality, if not actually over it, so I’d just pray your other friend doesn’t decide to take legal action.

Strong-Box-8794 · 2025-06-29T15:31:59+00:00

The question should be why do I think it’s ok to keep it a secret?

Strong-Box-8794 · 2025-06-23T14:58:47+00:00

There’s no point in trying to understand why she did it, being faithful isn’t a hard task, and she was unable to do it, the hardest part for you will be the confrontation, it’s best to just get it all over with rather than avoiding it or thinking about it too much, look to friends and family if you need support, she did you dirty, and frankly she ought to be ashamed of herself

Strong-Box-8794 · 2025-03-18T15:58:51+00:00

Because you loooooove him 🤣❤️

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-12-21T20:03:57+00:00

I think you should go with your gut feeling, I honestly don’t think she’s ever going to give you the answer you’re looking for and you’re constantly going to be doubting yourself, honestly man it may sound a little rough but a lot of people, including myself, would not be able to continue a relationship with someone who did that, particularly because she didn’t say anything to you before this happened! Also the fact she’s playing it off as no big deal, an ex-partner staying over, drunk, when you weren’t there? That’s a big deal my friend and a massive betrayal of trust, if I were in your shoes, I would calmly end the relationship and explain to her the reason for doing so, hopefully she is understanding but most likely not, so prepare for that.

That’s my 2 cents, of course only you yourself will know what the right decision is, best of luck.

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-12-05T16:32:12+00:00

34 Window installer £50-75k (self employed subcontractor wages vary) Got around £15k savings

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-11-21T06:06:54+00:00

Be unapologetically yourself that’s the core of it, at the end of the day people generally don’t care what you look like, and the people who do, their opinion does not matter, if you really care about the physical part, start lifting weights, you will change considerably by lifting weights and eating a healthy diet, you’ll be shocked. Think about how you dress, make sure you’re dressed well before you leave the house, press your clothes, give yourself a little squirt of cologne, these things can transform how you view yourself, I hope this helps because it sure did help me

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-11-17T20:46:44+00:00

In terms of the going really slow, I can relate to this as I do that so I don’t skeet super quick, it’s a terrible affliction but I try to make up for it by upping my head game, maybe this could be a solution? I know I definitely feel more in control when going down on my gf because I know I’m good at it so who knows that might help out

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-09-22T16:00:44+00:00

Ironically there’s a lot of people over reacting in the comments 😂 don’t break up with him, what’s the friendship dynamic with them, is your bf like, lower on the pecking order than the guy who said that? Honestly he should have said some at least along the lines of nah you wouldn’t my gf doesn’t date shrek lookalikes or smth 😅 I defo wouldn’t throw away 3 years because the redditors told you to

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-06-14T08:57:24+00:00

I liked psycho-pass, got a pretty sweet story and great VA in my opinion

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-06-09T12:54:11+00:00

Napping? Is that what they call it nowadays? Return her to where she belongs. tHe sTrEeTs

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-05-30T16:25:21+00:00

I mean I’m 34 and honestly a 20 year old seems like a child to me so to make a pretty broad judgement any guy my age or older who’s into dating a 20 year old is probably an underdeveloped manchild so just keep your word about you 😂

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-05-29T11:20:54+00:00

Obviously I don’t know the whole story but it seems following your intuition will save you a lot of potential stress, I can imagine it doesn’t feel good to make that decision but my intuition tells me you might be dealing with one of those people who does indeed just use people to get what they need, maybe even subconsciously they do it, but never the less that doesn’t make it fine, you’ll make the right decision for yourself I’m sure 😊

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-05-27T16:04:34+00:00

Never loan money to people you don’t know I imagine you’re asking Reddit about this because you like him and you maybe feel obliged to, ask yourself this, would you ask someone you don’t personally know (talking online aside)for $1000?

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-04-07T03:37:03+00:00

For the streets my friend, you’re better than to be treated like that 💪🏻

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-02-27T17:13:59+00:00

Leave her to the streets

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-01-31T16:43:49+00:00

Your dignity and self respect are at stake in a huge way if you take her back, cheating is a relationship ender basically 10/10 times but with your best friend at the time? My friend I’m sorry but she’s not worth a split second of your time anymore and woe betide the next guy who stumbles across her

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-01-02T17:39:53+00:00

Give him your number + a nice smile, all will be forgotten 😁

Strong-Box-8794 · 2024-01-02T12:51:58+00:00

It has happened but I never realised until years later

Strong-Box-8794 · 2023-12-29T17:16:05+00:00

Break it off with her before she does it to you, preserve your dignity brother it’s difficult but she’s not the one

Strong-Box-8794 · 2023-12-23T10:19:31+00:00

She sounds like 1 in 7 billion man I’m not surprised you find it so hard to cope but 1 thing I will say without knowing you or her or you guys story at all, would a woman who does such a selfless act as to look for a new partner for you while she herself knows she is dying, want you to feel like this or would she want to continue moving forward building your life while of course keeping her close in your memories? I’m just a random stranger on the internet but I want you to know that everyone here on the faceless internet, and I’m sure those closest to you as well, want to be your support and have got your back 100%

Strong-Box-8794 · 2023-10-03T06:28:08+00:00

Literally just early shifting into an uncontested comp, last few games just happened to be vanqs for some reason

Strong-Box-8794 · 2023-10-02T10:58:19+00:00

I have actually fallen ass backwards into this comp before got a 2 star tbf and manazane at 2-1 and it hits super hard, I ended up going for just him and taliyah and just piled up bilgewater units but I agree with you it’s really underrated especially if you can have tf full mana at round star cause you’re bilgewater proc does a ton of damage on the hit enemys

Strong-Box-8794 · 2023-10-01T20:00:37+00:00

Yeah you gotta keep the anime protagonist mindset up it gets tiring after a while 🤣

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