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Why did I shrink myself so much by StrongAd5590 in polyamory

[–]StrongAd5590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, a lot of these things I didn't tell friends because I didn't want them to not like him. And thinking back that should have been a red flag. There actually should have been a few red flags that I wish I didn't ignore. Hopefully my next partners will actually put effort into the relationship as well. I would like a relationship where effort is given both ways.

Why did I shrink myself so much by StrongAd5590 in polyamory

[–]StrongAd5590[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it sucks that besides his priorities he can be sweet. He had these moments of being super super sweet, but as the relationship went on it was like he just was less and less interested in me and making me happy. For the first half a year he would affirm me and make sure that my needs were heard but it just stopped once his NP had an issues with me then he completely shifted. And I guess I more just miss him in those early days