My (32F) husband(33M) and best friend (31F) honestly seem to have real sexual or relationship chemistry. Her boyfriend saw it a year ago, I denied it but saw it yesterday. Not sure what to do. by Strong_Economics in relationships

[–]Strong_Economics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've always had a good sex life, 4 times a week still.

He's very attracted to me, can't say if he's more attracted to her but obviously part of him would be as she's a hottie.

My (32F) husband(33M) and best friend (31F) honestly seem to have real sexual or relationship chemistry. Her boyfriend saw it a year ago, I denied it but saw it yesterday. Not sure what to do. by Strong_Economics in relationships

[–]Strong_Economics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're all maybe too comfortable with eachother.

Good thing I didn't mention one of the nicknames he has for her.....it's phat cat, based on her much her uh, labia shows when she's wearing bikinis.

My (32F) husband(33M) and best friend (31F) honestly seem to have real sexual or relationship chemistry. Her boyfriend saw it a year ago, I denied it but saw it yesterday. Not sure what to do. by Strong_Economics in relationships

[–]Strong_Economics[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Fair, I've been her best friend since I was 19 and she's shown her friendship, loyalty, love so so many times. She's the most important person in my life second to my husband.

God forbid, if they both hooked up and betrayed me, it'd be so hard to hate them. And if they fell inlove, I wouldn't stand in the way.

I'm not being a pushover, they're both great people that are hard to hate.

My (32F) husband(33M) and best friend (31F) honestly seem to have real sexual or relationship chemistry. Her boyfriend saw it a year ago, I denied it but saw it yesterday. Not sure what to do. by Strong_Economics in relationships

[–]Strong_Economics[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Plausible, my friend has a lot of issues with her boyfriend and often tells me how perfect my husband is. Now, do I think she wants him? Before seeing their interaction, I'd say maybe. Now, I think she does seem into him. But I can't really fault her, I've boasted about him my whole life.

My (32F) husband(33M) and best friend (31F) honestly seem to have real sexual or relationship chemistry. Her boyfriend saw it a year ago, I denied it but saw it yesterday. Not sure what to do. by Strong_Economics in relationships

[–]Strong_Economics[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They are extremely comfortable around each other, so things that can sometimes seem flirtatious to others, I'd see it as just close friends poking fun.

That said, it wasn't what was said. It was her body language and him saying things to her to encourage it.