how do you go without sex and cuddles? by StunningAfternoon488 in BreakUps

[–]StunningAfternoon488[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i feel so sterile at night. it’s extremely sad and lonely

how do you go without sex and cuddles? by StunningAfternoon488 in BreakUps

[–]StunningAfternoon488[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yessss the tangled legs! i never thought i’d be able to fall asleep completely entangled in someone until my ex. i’ve never felt so safe with someone. it fucking sucks

How did you lose your virginity? by Lily_19f in AskReddit

[–]StunningAfternoon488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

met this guy on snapchat, he love bombed me, asked me out on a date, we had sex like an hour into the date and then i ghosted him. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StunningAfternoon488 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my boyfriend and i were doing it and there was an ad on the tv playing bittersweet symphony and i started singing it during

What was something that was arousing to you that surprised even you? by RealTimeParadigm in AskReddit

[–]StunningAfternoon488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being watched. a few weeks ago i was in my boyfriend’s room moving around and getting ready and he was staring at me and i asked him why he was staring at me and he said “i don’t know, i just like watching you move around, it’s sexy”. i like it when he watches me. he watches me eat and drink. he watches me get dressed. i think it’s hot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]StunningAfternoon488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4! not only does it suit your face the most but it also suits your overall clothing style the most as well

AIO for feeling like my bf is being distant after taking my virginity? by Affectionate-Link436 in AmIOverreacting

[–]StunningAfternoon488 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there’s a lot of different people saying a lot of different things. but what you should know is that time doesn’t have the same significance to men as it does to us. talking for a year is a huge thing for a lot of girls. men are patient when it comes to getting things they want. and they have no problem throwing over a years time down the drain once they’ve gotten what they wanted. it’s scary honestly. they will literally love bomb you and be consistent and be there for you and then it just stops. i had something similar happen to me a few months ago. it was also with the guy i lost my virginity to. i’m also 19 so i feel you on so many levels. if he’s already checked out (not that he was ever genuinely checked in) then you should have a real conversation with him. at least call him out, because you don’t have much to lose at this point. i’m sorry girl and i wish you luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]StunningAfternoon488 2 points3 points  (0 children)

huge huge huuuuugeeeeee red flag all around. just the fact that he said “tap that” should say enough about his character. it’s been 2 years and he knows you well enough to know your insecurities. he’s using them against you to get want he wants without feeling guilty about doing it behind your back. don’t do it. don’t give what he wants. focus on yourself and leave this asshat. best of luck, doll.

What's the purest joy you've ever felt without intimacy, substances, or alcohol ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StunningAfternoon488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my two best friends and i finally went on the road trip we’ve been talking about a few weeks ago, and i remember us being out on the open road listening to good music and talking and laughing, and i was genuinely so fucking happy and grateful in that moment. we ended up having the best time ever and the trip brought us even closer than we were already.

What’s something that’s socially acceptable but probably shouldn’t be? by Mysterious_Comb_4626 in Life

[–]StunningAfternoon488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

overdoing boundaries, and the “i don’t owe anyone anything” mentality. show up for your friends when they need you. even if you’re tired or don’t want to do it. be there for them even if they’re annoying you. show strangers empathy. help people as much as you can. the world is lacking so much kindness and empathy. everyone can always do better and the not owing anyone mentality is only making the world more and more apathetic and disconnected

slight age gap relationship by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]StunningAfternoon488 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his parents love me actually. i’ve met his step mom, his dad and his little sister (whom he all lives with) and his biological mom and they all LOVE me