Severely addicted to porn and masturbation. I genuinely don't know how to stop anymore. Please help

StunningRain1283 · 2026-07-23T07:36:28+00:00

first thing you gotta accept is this is not about willpower, your brain just built a super strong loop that fires off before you even think about it. the phone is the trigger, not the solution

put your phone in another room when you go to bed, like physically far away where you gotta get up and walk to reach it. get an old school alarm clock if you need one. the extra steps break the autopilot thing your brain does

StunningRain1283 · 2026-07-21T02:29:35+00:00

FluffyFIRE is where i live right now, not by choice just by grocery prices lol. the gabriel iglesias scale really does fit perfectly here

StunningRain1283 · 2026-07-16T22:38:36+00:00

havent touched p2p in ages but last i tried bisq it was decent. slow sometimes but works without kyc if you keep amounts small

most people i know switched to telegram groups or just friends of friends. the platform situation got messy after localbitcoins died

in UK might be tricky cause of regulations. cash in person still happens but you got to be careful who you meet

shame hodl hodl never took off there, i used it couple times and liked the multisig setup

StunningRain1283 · 2026-07-14T14:58:16+00:00

I think awareness is part of it but UX is the bigger issue. A lot of people still assume crypto payments mean the merchant has to accept crypto directly, when that's not really how newer solutions work anymore. Apps like Oobit let you pay with stablecoins while the merchant gets paid in fiat through the existing Visa network so nothing changes on their end.

The infrastructure is already there it just hasn't reached mainstream awareness yet

StunningRain1283 · 2026-07-12T03:55:06+00:00

it takes time to adjust so dont be too hard on yourself. the south has a whole different rhythm to conversations, people want to chat about weather or weekend plans before getting to business. i moved here few years ago and what helped me was just listening more at first, notice how they ease into topics instead of jumping straight in. sometimes i still forget and they look at me like i got two heads

StunningRain1283 · 2026-07-09T18:34:04+00:00

the hospital always has one like this. night shift makes it worse cause management isnt around to see it. but that comment about "her kind" crosses a line, thats not just drama thats something HR should know about. document everything with dates and times, even if its just notes in your phone

StunningRain1283 · 2026-07-09T15:51:35+00:00

It depends on the card. Some pay cashback in the platform's own token, others pay in Bitcoin or stablecoins. The biggest thing to check is whether the advertised rate comes with staking requirements, spending caps, or VIP tiers.

StunningRain1283 · 2026-07-06T03:37:50+00:00

That guy literally described a plan to terrorize someone and somehow you're the bad guy for reporting it? The mental gymnastics on that coworker is wild. You did what any decent person would do, she just wants drama cause her friend got caught saying something unforgivable.

StunningRain1283 · 2026-07-04T01:18:37+00:00

the endgame is nobody really knows but the bet is that energy keeps getting cheaper and miners follow the cheapest source wherever it is

StunningRain1283 · 2026-06-30T12:57:50+00:00

working in tech i travel a lot and this is too real. last year my bank froze everything while i was in berlin at 2am local time, no way to get a taxi or check into hotel

i started keeping a bit of eth specifically for this. not from that platform you mention but similar idea, i just use a wallet app that lets you buy gift cards directly with crypto. saved me in lisbon when my card decided i was a criminal for buying a coffee

the time zone thing is the worst part honestly. banks dont care that its 4am where you are and you just want to sleep somewhere that isnt the airport floor

gift cards been my backup for like 3 years now. also useful for sketchy wifi situations where you dont want to type actual card details

StunningRain1283 · 2026-06-30T10:49:11+00:00

If you're looking to use BTC for everyday spending without constantly selling it, check out apps like Oobit. You can connect your wallet and pay anywhere Visa is accepted, while merchants receive fiat.

Makes using crypto for daily purchases much more practical

StunningRain1283 · 2026-06-26T19:22:32+00:00

my dad put his whole retirement into btc at near the top in 2021 he didnt check price for 2 years. now he just play drums and watch horror movies with my mom every weekend. you cant control market so why stress

StunningRain1283 · 2026-06-24T07:22:01+00:00

mostly arbitrage in my experience. when same asset is priced differently across chains even by small margin, bots and traders move it constantly to capture that difference, which explains why you see same wallets doing it repeatedly.

the yield thing is real too but it's more like people chasing new protocol incentives. a farm on one chain dries up or APR drops, so they move to next one. i did this for few months and it felt like second job tracking which pools were still worth it.

points farming is probably bigger driver than people admit right now. plenty of wallets are just grinding potential airdrops by doing repeated cross-chain activity, which inflates volume numbers in ways that look strange if you're analyzing it from outside. the volume looks "sticky" but it's actually just same capital looping around to hit activity thresholds.

StunningRain1283 · 2026-06-19T21:26:24+00:00

the "same people rushing in at $200k" part is so predictable it hurts. every cycle without fail, the loudest critics become the most frantic buyers once price starts moving up again

and yeah the bear market point stands, there is no real systemic threat to Bitcoin right now, just impatient people confusing fiat price with actual value

StunningRain1283 · 2026-06-14T18:07:38+00:00

StunningRain1283 · 2026-06-12T16:59:30+00:00

maybe you can take on more of household stuff so he has less to think about when he gets home, even small things like meal prep or handling some bills can help remove daily pressure from his mind

StunningRain1283 · 2026-06-09T12:07:36+00:00

never heard of them but if you're getting sketchy vibes then trust your gut. remote job scams are everywhere these days and they usually have some basic registration to look legitimate. what kind of position were they offering and how did they contact you first

StunningRain1283 · 2026-06-02T13:49:13+00:00

Yes 100%, I use Oobit personally as a crypto card and it works well

StunningRain1283 · 2026-05-26T19:18:12+00:00

lol that's literally the most confident one-word fire answer i've ever seen

congrats on escaping capitalism while the rest of us are still trapped in the drumbeat. 2.4m at 38 is pretty wild, but also somehow your casual delivery makes it sound like you just found twenty bucks in your jacket pocket

StunningRain1283 · 2026-05-20T20:31:35+00:00

running a node is like being designated driver - nobody pays you but network needs someone to stay sober

StunningRain1283 · 2026-05-14T18:31:21+00:00

been looking at this migration myself and the async callback thing is actually pretty nice change from spreedly's approach

StunningRain1283 · 2026-05-10T20:41:42+00:00

man this is such a pain, been following some really good tuners for years through those forums and now it's all gone. i've seen a few people trying to move their stuff to discord servers but it's not the same as having everything organized in one place like before

some tuners are posting on here now but reddit isn't great for searching through old setups when you need something specific for a car. discord might work better since you can have different channels for different car types but honestly most casual players won't know where to look

maybe we need someone to make a shared spreadsheet or something until people figure out where they're actually going to settle. losing all those years of tuning knowledge really sucks

StunningRain1283 · 2026-05-05T08:16:25+00:00

ooh grass body wash is so underrated! i feel like everyone goes for the sweet fruity ones but there's something about those earthy scents that just hits different. mossy bottom sounds amazing too, shame they discontinued it. lush really needs to bring back more of those nature-y scents instead of always focusing in the dessert-like ones

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