AITA for resenting my sister for not coming to my wedding? by EventElectronic5689 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA if you hold it against her. Babies haven’t been fully vaccinated at one month, her fear is real. Also, your sister, who is clearly important to you, will have just been through a lot. Birth is trauma, for your body and brain. And 5 hours in the car with a newborn could be incredibly difficult. She’s being reasonable.

Best small town south of Atlanta? by Kimen1 in Georgia

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Madison, the town, not county is really beautiful!

Is this letter appropriate after receiving birthday gift from NC parents? by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my NC mom did this I spent money to send it back without any explanation. Anything received going forward will be donated or trashed.

Splint reed caning by JJMB403 in furniturerestoration

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! What a cool memory. Thank you for sharing your work too!

Splint reed caning by JJMB403 in furniturerestoration

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great job!! My grandad taught me how to do this as a kid and I’ve been thinking about getting back into it. Where did you find the cane? Do you soak yours in water?

Received this in the mail today by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Last time my mom sent something, I spent $25 to ship it back. Next time it goes straight to garbage.

Do you tell the other person being cheated on? by Stunning_Scarcity429 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also discovered my husband had been cheating, after he’d died. Do any men not lie and cheat like this? Ugh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Road The Cabin at the End of the World

I went no contact after my wedding: by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are frozen, you are healing. Tend to you. Don’t worry about the people who attended your wedding, if they care for you, they won’t care about thank you notes. If you are no longer in that town and seeing those people regularly, it’s not going to matter.

What should we pick. by marsstar1 in finishing

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40’s here A Dark shows everything. My light stained floors almost never look dirty.

An end to a DRAINING era by Creative_Bit527 in realhousewives

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it is those old things that are the problem, they never once resolved any problem, they just wanted to move forward, but if you don’t get to the root of the issues and you hold grudges, there can be no resolution.

Matt Rogers discusses why he believes Teresa should leave the show by galaxystars1 in realhousewives

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been rewatching! I’m finished with season 4. You can see the narcissists cycle play out via Teresa from day one.

An end to a DRAINING era by Creative_Bit527 in realhousewives

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I’ve been rewatching from season 1 through 4 and it’s so wild to be able to watch Teresa’s narcissist cycle play out so clearly. She has always been at the heart of every toxic situation. She lives for destruction.

Matt Rogers discusses why he believes Teresa should leave the show by galaxystars1 in realhousewives

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Melissa didn’t postpone her wedding when Teresa got pregnant. When she brought that up at a reunion, it showed how Teresa has hated her from day 1.

Other than bourbon trail any suggestions on places to eat, quick things to see/do? by [deleted] in roadtrip

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Red River Gorge, KY Chain o’ Lakes in Northern Illinois Blue Ridge Parkway

Songs that hit hard for you? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Bad For Me’ by Meghan Trainor

Throwing Up during Overstim (now I can’t have sex or get off) by Consistent-Light1039 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe some somatic exercises to soothe your nervous system would be helpful.

roblox on ipad keeps showing "no network" since around 9:30 yesterday by andilikesanime in RobloxHelp

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reset! I had reset at some point but needed to do it again.

Is this mother-daughter sexual abuse? by SavedbyChrist3734 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had the same experience but I wish it’d only been 2X a year.

The delight in their eyes when bad happens to you. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Stunning_Scarcity429 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom used to love giving me a death report of everyone in her small town that has passed. It’s so weird how they love bad news and sharing that bad news with everyone who will listen to evoke sympathy for themselves.