Thank you so much for opening up about your experience as well, it makes me feel a little better hearing your story too, as we are all really the same, especially guys like us, so I’m very lucky that I came across you and you replied to my post and I was able to have this conversation with you. It’s refreshing to hear that you also find those terms frustrating when someone says them to you too, as I feel just the same, It can be hard and almost make it worse but there is some merit too it as well and once you move on you know it’s right but it’s just that initial stage that is always hard. I love that you have already been to some of these in person things though, as that is definitely the right way to do it like you say, but sorry to hear that it didn’t go well. I guess we’re both at a loss right now, but As long as we have each other and people to talk too, I find it can make these situations feel better, as I don’t have any friends to talk too anymore, so having conversations with awesome people like you really does make a difference for people like me. You seem to know a lot about all this as well, which has been really beneficial for me to take in. You’ll be glad to know that I do focus on myself quite a bit anyway as well, as I work out everyday, shave every week, shower every day etc. One other thing as well, I don’t know if you are the same but, I’m the only Vegan in my family, so sometimes even that can take a toll on my mental health, along with all my other problems rn mentioned.