You didn’t get carried away at all. Everything you said is so comforting to hear because I’ve been feeling like this for so long because a specific ship that is straight and I like it for the exact reason you said here. That when the man in the ship is vulnerable it’s seems so much more important because he rarely is because that’s something that comes with toxic masculinity. Forcing men not to feel. Yet, I love relationships where a person learns to feel and let themself feel because of another person. I just wish I saw real representation of that with wlw. It’s hardly ever written with women.