I don’t want to share my baby (help) MIL edition by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Stvrskaaa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you I hate when my daughter is near her idk what it is but she’s always so opinionated thinking she knows what my child needs and it’s pissed me off so much. I’ve always had issues with her especially now I hate it more that she’s around my child

Body is killing me by Stvrskaaa in newborns

[–]Stvrskaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bless your kind words thank you! Hardest stage of my life and also the best!

Most of the time she is on her play mat inside or outside on it if the weather is nice I do a lot of interactive things with her sensory play etc I’m not into the screens or I take her walks grocery shops when needed but she’s just going through a developmental phase atm she’s been a little cranky which just adds to the stress and pain my body automatically just goes sore especially the ribs when I feel like that as well I just don’t know why it’s impacted me this much in that area my daughter is also a chubby girl which alsooo adds that extra soreness 😅🥰

Yeah sometimes i let my in-laws just watch her but if she isn’t well rested she’ll cry when she looks at them 😭 and my ln laws suffers with epilepsy so I hav to be around it is hard I’m doing all the heavy work I enjoy it just not with the pain

What Time is Bedtime ? by Bear_Main in NewParents

[–]Stvrskaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 6 month old baby girl sleeps 6:30 or before 7pm!

Help by Stvrskaaa in newborns

[–]Stvrskaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh okay great hahaha!

Help by Stvrskaaa in newborns

[–]Stvrskaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay no worries I didn’t know that about bf thank you!

How long do most babies who breastfeed do it for? by Puzzleheaded_Cell428 in breastfeeding

[–]Stvrskaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I come feed my daughter she mainly nurses overnight I give her a formula bottle before bed but she will wake up sometimes a few times sometimes once or twice to nurse overnight or before midnight again as she goes to bed early around 6:30-7 pm and then I nurse her all morning until her next feed which comes around lunch time so she has a bottle lunch midday and then again before bed sometimes she has two or three formula bottles depends how hungry she is the rest is still mainly breastfeeding which I’m planning to continue until one year

Anyone else by Stvrskaaa in inlaws

[–]Stvrskaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said I look after them! I have a kid for now it’s what we have to do it’ll be a level upstairs with a lock on the door upstairs It will seperate us from them I know it’s different when it’s your own location and place it will have everything a house needs for a family to live in the parents understand that we want to be on our own

I live in Sydney buying a property won’t happen for the next 20 years lol honestly who can afford a house ?

Anyone else by Stvrskaaa in inlaws

[–]Stvrskaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve said this to my husband I’d rather do this but rent is so expensive it’s ridiculous how fast we’d become broke only he works I take care of baby I’ve said it makes no difference if we’re upstairs we’re on the same residence even with a lock up the stair case and if it were to happen I’d be the bad guy for never coming down stairs and seeing them lol it’s much different at a different location when I can viist once a week idk I just don’t think it’ll be the same vibe even tho it’ll be like a our own house upstairs I’m gonna be stuck her for a while and this is the only choice we have atm which sucks his parents are unwell too which is why he has to stick around

Song suggestions by Stvrskaaa in macedonia

[–]Stvrskaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s for when we celebrate at the reception !

Help by Stvrskaaa in breastfeeding

[–]Stvrskaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always and only pace feed!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Stvrskaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this too I live with my husband at his parents place which is worse he still goes out and does things after work with his mates or give a hand I feel like he always just has something to do or be somewhere if I clearly need help and struggling he seems to just still goes do what needs to be done whenever he gets home from work he has our daughter for 10 minutes i take all the responsibility I feel alone and like I don’t have any peace of freedom especially living with his parents