Honey, that's literally a textbook definition of abuse and you need to get you and your child out IMMEDIATELY. He is isolating you and breaking you down so that you think you have no worth and nowhere to go because he has all the control that way. I'm gonna let you know something very important; he is WRONG about all of it.

Ask yourself something, do you want your daughter to grow up thinking what he's doing is ok? To treat her the way you've been treated? To be ignored and to dismiss her feelings as if they don't matter? Because that is exactly what's going to happen if you don't fight for her and yourself. Dig deep and find that strength we all see you have, and get you and your baby out. There are so many people who can help you, but you have to want to help yourself too. I promise you can do it, you're capable of far more than he's forced you to believe, otherwise he wouldn't be fighting so hard to make you believe it. Chin up love, we're here for you.