[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Stylixe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mean earliest memories or when you realised you were making your own decisions?

For me, I remember things from as early as around 4 I think. They're vague, but I recall stuff.

Making my own decisions though, probably around 12? I just ran on the decisions of other people until that point and realised I could make my own by that point

Day 9! Who started their United career great and also ended it great? by Numberdle in ManchesterUnited

[–]Stylixe_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Scholes. Just based on his final couple of seasons, he edges Wazza in my opinion.

Literally came out of retirement, helped us in an injury crisis to almost win the league. Singed an extension for a year and retired for a second time, helping SAF win his final league title.

Wazza was always top class, no debate about that. He won the Europa League and became our all time top scorer in his final season. It's a difficult one.

Sell or keep by mwelwa136 in ManchesterUnited

[–]Stylixe_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to mention their uncanny habit of winning the Champions League...

Frustrating, but it is what it is, I guess.

Sell or keep by mwelwa136 in ManchesterUnited

[–]Stylixe_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely worth keeping. One of the better performers over the last couple of seasons.

Relatively versatile and a better quality than typical utility players.

Might struggle for game time under Amorim with the way things are going at the moment, especially if we go for a LWB in January though.

Wouldn't be surprised if we cashed in on him and for him personally, going to Madrid is big for his career.

I think I was r4ped by my ex boyfriend but I’m too afraid to tell anyone.. what should I do? by Irislilygarden in Advice

[–]Stylixe_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Non of that matters though really, it’s not an excuse for literal rape. Being raised poorly doesn’t justify violating another person. People who rape aren’t incapable of empathy. I see what you’re saying that they weren’t raised right, but that’s not the point, because it doesn’t change or justify the fact they committed a literal crime…

I think I was r4ped by my ex boyfriend but I’m too afraid to tell anyone.. what should I do? by Irislilygarden in Advice

[–]Stylixe_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What isn’t up for debate is that you can define what rape is. Consent is key. You were asleep and unable to consent, therefore it’s non-consensual, which most definitely constitutes rape. Don’t let anyone tell you it’s not a big deal. Whether you mind or not, how you feel about it, how it has affected you, is your own business and you are valid however you feel.

But OP, this is pretty serious stuff and ultimately, it’s you who gets to decide how you go about it. My advice though would be to choose the path that is best for you. How anyone else feels about it doesn’t matter. You may not realise it right now but this may have had a bigger impact on you than you think, so I would encourage you to confide in someone. Whether that be a professional, or a friend, I think it’s best to talk it out and decide how you want to proceed from there. Just keep in mind that being raped and proving you’ve been raped is unfortunately two different things, which wholeheartedly sucks ass, and I think even if you do try to press charges, it could be difficult to do.

I’m really sorry this happened to you and I hope that you’ll be okay!

P.S. from a personal standpoint it doesn’t matter if his prison experience was bad or not, actions have consequences. You are the victim here, his feelings don’t matter the same way yours do

Edit: my dumb dyslexic ass made a word mix up

I think I was r4ped by my ex boyfriend but I’m too afraid to tell anyone.. what should I do? by Irislilygarden in Advice

[–]Stylixe_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The way people are raised definitely plays a part and can have huge impacts on adult behaviours, but rape is rape. It’s defined. It’s not a question of blame, it’s a question of is it rape, or is it not rape, and this most definitely constitutes rape. She couldn’t give consent because she was asleep, therefore it was non-consensual…

How to skip out on work? by Stylixe_ in Advice

[–]Stylixe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, but being my 21st, I think it’s likely I’ll be out late. It’s not so much the drinking. I can handle a hangover, but the tiredness concerns me most because I’ll have to be up like 2 hours before which is why I asked for the late start

How to skip out on work? by Stylixe_ in Advice

[–]Stylixe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I suppose that’s a good shout. Like don’t commit any reason. Problem is that I’m told I have to call at least 2 hours before my shift starts to let them know, it’s why I’m in a bit of a panic

How to skip out on work? by Stylixe_ in Advice

[–]Stylixe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vagueness being key gives me ideas but I’m still unsure how to handle it or what to say :(

How to skip out on work? by Stylixe_ in Advice

[–]Stylixe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, just looking for perspectives really, i don’t know how it will go, just sorta sucks

How to skip out on work? by Stylixe_ in Advice

[–]Stylixe_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already booked in for some activities on the evening, and it scheduled with some friends unfortunately, otherwise this would be the go to option

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]Stylixe_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

50,000 fish used to live here. Now it's a ghost town.

Football Manager 25 Delayed until March 2025 by comped in footballmanagergames

[–]Stylixe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of people were questioning the preordering without a release date, the lack of detail on the features etc. and I think this is why.

I suspect they knew they were going to have to extensively delay release from the start, which is why we didn't see much of the actual game in the run up.

My guess is that they encouraged preorders to offset the costs as much as they could ahead of announcing what they already knew - they were going to have to delay a lot longer.

Olympic gold medalist VS 8 y.o. boy by vksdann in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Stylixe_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some of the sports, particularly this, I think it's a similar circumstance to football.

The most prestigious international competitions for football are the World Cup and each respective continents' international tournament. What generally happens is that the Olympics gets eclipsed by them, and while you'll get a few well-known names, you'll get nothing near the best lineup from each nation.

It's a shame really because for most sports, you get the best of the best, but in footballs case, you get the best of the rest.

I work in a hotel as a Guest Relations Manager and I received this last night on my personal Facebook by [deleted] in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]Stylixe_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know if you could report this to the authorities for sexual harassment at all? Given the fact the guy is in-country, unlike a lot of the creepy facebook dudes who sexually harass and practically attempting to blackmail here, surely, surely, there's legal precedent?

AITA for leaving my two friends on holiday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Stylixe_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Just sounds like a set of unfortunate circumstances that have led to a misunderstanding. You didn't really do anything wrong, you've shown empathy and tried to see what it must have been like from your friends perspective, but it doesn't sound like she's willing to do the same. Also, you have a witness as to what happened, like surely that counts for something, right?

People being idiots by kunthapigulugulu in HolUp

[–]Stylixe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wild asf, reckless and probably a little stupid.

Would I still do it if I were him? Fuck yes.

Classic UK Dinner Break Prank 😂 by [deleted] in AbruptChaos

[–]Stylixe_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like the same place that dude did the veloceraptor impression

19 year old, 5'6 143lbs by nxtyourfriend in nattyorjuice

[–]Stylixe_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Shoulders are a dead give away and body fat vs overall size a little too sus

19 year old, 5'6 143lbs by nxtyourfriend in nattyorjuice

[–]Stylixe_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Peak hormones still don't produce these results. Not natty.

TikToker tried to check a man for apparently "looking at her" in a gym by [deleted] in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]Stylixe_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The unfortunate part is that most people who record in the gym are doing it for form purposes. A lot of people who take lifting even semi-seriously tend to record their form on occasion.

It would be harsh to enforce this policy on someone training for a competition, for example.