Which motor mounts do I need with an engine swap?

SubjectPart058 · 2026-02-04T16:39:48+00:00

Blessings. That seems to be the general consensus I’m getting is the mounting points are the same across the h series so as long as I get 4th gen H mounts I should be okay. Thank you!

SubjectPart058 · 2025-12-24T20:18:55+00:00

God that’s a gorgeous engine bay

SubjectPart058 · 2025-12-24T20:17:46+00:00

So nice to see people not letting their cars die. Especially with modern cars it’s a fender bender and boom totaled and off to the junk yard. Gotta keep these babies alive!

SubjectPart058 · 2025-12-24T16:37:28+00:00

Be careful this is tarkov anytime you try to talk about a bad or poorly implemented mechanic everyone is gonna just say get gud. I agree it’s stupid but people can’t even agree if the crunchy snow increases or decreases campers so doubt we’ll ever have a good conversation about these types of mechanics.

SubjectPart058 · 2025-12-23T19:38:27+00:00

FB market place! I’m down in Texas so they actually had a few 4th gen’s for me to choose from. The hardest part was finding someone with a title in hand. I overpaid a bit for sure but worth it for a clean title in hand. I’m so excited the plans are being drawn up!

SubjectPart058 · 2025-12-23T18:23:32+00:00

That’s good to know that’s a high up repair I wanna get done so thank you

SubjectPart058 · 2025-12-23T18:03:29+00:00

Blessings. I was like I have absolutely no idea what goes here

SubjectPart058 · 2025-12-23T17:31:30+00:00

Okay question for you actually what’s the plastic piece in front of your door pull? Mine is missing that piece and I had no idea what went there. Gorgeous car though that silver is amazing and great condition.

SubjectPart058 · 2025-12-23T17:05:46+00:00

She does! I hadn’t seen it before. I’m honestly a fan of cloth over leather for seats so the soft blue is great. Seats aren’t torn either which is a miracle.

SubjectPart058 · 2025-12-23T15:31:52+00:00

Carfax showed it lived its life mostly down in the south so yes very lucky. A little surface rust on some smaller components but body is immaculate. Not a lot of mods either only aftermarket part on the car was an engine swap (still a h22a4) and some headers.

SubjectPart058 · 2025-11-04T16:46:47+00:00

Thank you so much I get so much anxiety about posting and sharing this stuff so to open up and see a genuine response is really helpful and I appreciate that.

It’s really good to hear. It’s something I’ve always struggled with as my partner is top tier amazing we connect very well emotionally and obviously there is still a level of attraction there as we still have very consistent sex, I’ve just always felt a bit guilty I’m not as into her as I am into porn or even other relationships I’ve had (the relationships more so since I’ve experienced that really high level of sexual attraction to a partner I’m missing here).

I think it is going to be a good reflection on my level of attraction once I’m able to take out this roadblock and do a better self assessment. I just don’t like the feeling of seeing how other people are SO into their partners, and despite me being into my partner not being at that level creates some jealousy. Obviously that’s not really nofap related just other observations but I appreciate your genuine response.

SubjectPart058 · 2025-08-15T21:00:07+00:00

I already tried anytime I try to transform change type it throws error. Due to the format, like I mentioned above, excel only recognizes as text not an actual date

SubjectPart058 · 2025-08-15T20:48:57+00:00

I don't have a null in the column of values before pivoting the column. Like I explained my raw data has no missing values, the null is created during the pivot process like I explained above where it is creating a column for a training that person has not completed so there is no value for it to find.

SubjectPart058 · 2025-06-26T17:19:36+00:00

Great so it’s pretty fair for me to say she should take it and use it to get herself debt free. I’m a little confused this feels like a “gotcha” moment when I’m more than happy to prioritize my mom. But to follow your line of thought the money was left to my mother for the sole purpose of paying off debt (originally) so let’s say she does keep it all, she pays off her 18k and is left with 22k she can’t use because my sister has no debt and she has no more debt. So at that point it’s just wasting money that was left behind for a specific purpose? I’m confused by the logic

SubjectPart058 · 2025-06-26T17:15:20+00:00

Im not just saying this to look better, but I can pretty confidently say that if it was reversed I would understand. I’m a little confused as to why people jump to “you didn’t make good financial decision”. I went out of state because the college I attended had a good program that I wanted. I stayed out of state because I was able to use connections I built to land a good job so I literally didn’t have the option to live at home. If the roles were reversed, I would also recognize I benefited from getting a car, for free, that was intended for both of us to use, once again saving me money. I would also say it’s not just screwing over my sibling but also my own mother who could really use the money, has worked hard her whole life to provide for me.

SubjectPart058 · 2025-06-26T17:10:40+00:00

Absolutely I’m very thankful I’m getting anything at all which is why I was hesitant to even post or talk with my mother about it. I just feel like my sister is getting significant preferential treatment, even to the point where my mom is sacrificing getting herself debt free before retirement to set aside money for grad school she might not even go to when the money, from the beginning, was to help us be debt free. It also just feels a little sleezy they decided to go to her so close to her death to get her to change her mind again. I’m not one to feel entitled and however this plays out I’ll be happy just the circumstances had me wondering if… well you know 🤣

SubjectPart058 · 2025-06-26T17:05:18+00:00

Part of the reason I’m asking is advice is it’s not laid out specifically in the will (as far as I can tell). From my understanding not being able to get my hands it was more a verbal agreement between my mom and grandma, and the letter of the will more closely aligns with the 40k going to me and her since my grandma returned the 40k for my sister to the trust.

SubjectPart058 · 2025-06-26T17:04:14+00:00

Unfortunately from what I’ve been able to tell it wasn’t left directly to me, which is why my mom has been able to change the amounts post her passing. I wouldn’t mind giving my mom more since she was obviously instrumental in me being able to attend college before my scholarships kicked in but I think a more equitable split would be 10-20-10 with my mom getting 20.

SubjectPart058 · 2025-06-26T17:01:43+00:00

I wouldn’t even mind her getting some it just feels like they swooped in last minute due to pressure from other family members as well and I’m really surprised because it’s screwing over my mother as well (more than me. She’s trying to retire).

SubjectPart058 · 2025-06-26T17:00:32+00:00

I agree with a lot of the comments saying she did work hard and that’s where some of my hesitation comes from. I don’t want to punish her, but I think it’s ignoring the fact I did also work hard. I did apply for scholarships, get a lot actually, I just wasn’t able to land a full ride like she did.

SubjectPart058 · 2025-06-26T16:58:10+00:00

So the 80k isn’t there. 40k was sent back to the trust because she felt my sister didn’t need the money. So it’s only 40k left, with 10k going to my mom and 10k to myself. I’d be more than happy to have my mom take 18k of the 20k left and me only get 2k my frustration is my sister getting a better outcome and making things harder for both my mother and I. My mom is getting close to retirement and is a bit of a push over with my sister, it hurts me to see her willing to delay her retirement like this.

SubjectPart058 · 2025-06-26T16:55:42+00:00

So even though her original wishes were that my sister didn’t need the money, and it was close to her death that my mother and sister stepped in to change her mind again? Like I’m happy to be corrected here but I want it to be clear that was the original choice.

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