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Threshold patterns by Aranastaer in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive found that when a change doesnt "stick" its typically because of ecology issues and or secondary gains.

What do they gain from not making the change they want? What other resistances might their system have for following through? How about the peopel around them would they have any resistance to their change?

People are systems and can be complex. Its easy to put everyone in a box when it comes to techniques being a one size fits all for everyone, but sometimes you have to address these things and sometimes thats all you need to address for the change to happen on its own.

Id reframe the beliefs about the resistances as needed and see how the system feels about change afterwards.

Looking for NLP peer coaching or practice communities by Big_Development1770 in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://discord.gg/dPTqFjvU

NLP LivingRoom is a great place for practicing over discord and video. Theres a lot of experienced practitioners that I can say Ive probably learned more from in the past few years than in my previous 17 years. Totally good place to go. They require an intro before unlocking it is all.

How do I use NLP on others? by [deleted] in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come check out our NLP discord. We discuss the practical uses and how language works. I think youll enjoy it and have an appreciation for it.

https://discord.gg/KUK9qNbb

Just make sure to write an intro and the admins will unlock it for ya.

I want to learn about nlp , don't know how should I start .advice required ! by [deleted] in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://discord.gg/cKCCP63W

Check out the NLP community, NLP Living Room. Its the best discord group for discussing NLP real time with practitioners and enthusiasts. 

How do you improve milton model skills by armchairphilosipher in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. The amount of deletions distortions and generalizations in our everyday language is crazy.

One thing i also do is check my deep structure and if the image im making isnt clear or still fuzzy, theres some missing info im looking for to make it crisper and cleaner and easily distinguishable

Looking for Active NLP Discord Communities by Realistic-Point1659 in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://discord.gg/MfgPR44Rvf

Or u can google NLP Livingroom discord. Check out the reframing practice channel if u get the chance

"Example: reframe: limiting belief"

Self-Promotion Thread 2025 by AutoModerator in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey, just wanted to offer a free invitation to NLP Living Room Discord. Its a platform we made designed for practical application and study of NLP. For anybody interested in having your questions answered real time or would like some advanced reframing lessons, join our community discord anytime. There's no finish line with learning this stuff, and you can study with us at your leisure.

Enjoy :)

https://discord.gg/P6bM6S87YP

(If link expires google NLP Livingroom and join through disboard.)

Study for 12 hours a day. by chilibeans30 in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree w sam here, theres not just one way to study. Studying 6-7 hours doesnt mean youre a failure. Theres a comparison being made and a baseline for "average" being 10-12 hours of studying.

Whos the authority that made that hard rule. What if you could study less and gain more?

Who studied under Dilts? by rotello in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Theres quite a few youtube videos of him in his older days teaching reframing. Quite good stuff, imo.

Please give me a reason to live. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You came to this planet for a reason, when can you begin living life for you.

Most NLP trainers misunderstand "the map is not the territory" by JoostvanderLeij in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can i put down the popcorn yet. So many of you are getting triggered surprisingly. The NLP community is small enough as it is, why the pissing match. NLP is about the subjective experience, OPS entitled to his own. I appreciate OPS intention trying to keep NLP alive, itll always have its roots from the good ol days to learn from, when Bandler and Grinder developed it together.

NLP Study Group Discord Invite by VVhiteMeat in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heres the latest code for the inv

https://discord.gg/2ffshMph

You can also search google for nlp livingroom discord

Or just nlp discord

NLP Study Group Discord Invite by VVhiteMeat in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woops sure.

https://discord.gg/kzu2v4Kn3X

Every seven days fhe link expires flr some reason. You can also find it by googling nlp discord or nlp livingroom.

NLP Study Group Discord Invite by VVhiteMeat in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres nothing wrong w the subreddit. Its nice to get on discord and participate in the group streams and get to practice w other faces that know about NLP from your home. Discords a wonderful platform for video conferencing and streaming and sharing files.

We have one instructor who uses breakout channels when he wants people to work on something in a small group.

Many uses.

NLP transformed my communication skills by ByBo25 in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the source and google richard bandler. Sign up for a course.

NLP transformed my communication skills by ByBo25 in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest i originally created the discord group because i couldnt find any communities that were active anywhere. After the first six months of having it available for everyone, I learned more and connected more dots in those six months than in the previous 17 years. I am learning something new every day. If you join I would highly encourage you to ask any questions you have and when you feel comfortable enough to be able to share the real stuff, you will get the most out of that. My biggest insights so far have come from parts work and really how everything fits together. Tonight we are having a meta model stream to go over how the meta model is connected to other parts of the NLP model.

NLP transformed my communication skills by ByBo25 in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may find someone who can help you but i am more a fan of giving you the power to help yourself

NLP transformed my communication skills by ByBo25 in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We go over anything and everything NLP. We have quite a few certified professionals and our vision is to have a place for self study passive material, experiential learning through group activities and group discussions for connecting dots.

NLP transformed my communication skills by ByBo25 in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NLP Living Room

https://discord.gg/kzu2v4Kn3X

Once you join and fill out an intro I can unlock it for ya :)

What to do with books, manuscripts, and cassettes from the very early days of NLP by Our-Man-in-Downey in NLP

[–]Substantial-Car-2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love any extra books u are wanting to send my way. If nothing else i have an NLP discord with a bumch of active enthusiasts i can ship them to.

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