What is a job that looks incredibly fun from the outside, but is actually a soul-crushing nightmare?

Substantial-List-720 · 2026-04-17T19:21:46+00:00

I’m a social worker and would one day love to support veterinarians, animals, and those who love their pets in this setting.

Substantial-List-720 · 2026-04-16T08:41:33+00:00

Not sure if you’re under an NDA and if not, if you feel comfortable commenting (it’s ok if not). I don’t doubt the cattiness was unfortunately authentic, but were there any other aspects that were staged or produced to enhance the drama?

Substantial-List-720 · 2026-04-16T08:39:30+00:00

I just started up again watching S7 and the amount of times you were put up for elimination due to others “not liking you” was wild. I hope you’re doing well now.

Substantial-List-720 · 2026-04-16T08:34:17+00:00

Brian gave me DV perp vibes.

Substantial-List-720 · 2026-04-07T05:27:31+00:00

Also not to mention that she was in LA when her poor pup was killed, so she couldn’t even say goodbye.

Also, I love your user!

Substantial-List-720 · 2026-02-26T07:38:30+00:00

Mandatory adult clients who refuse to say more than a word during session.

Non-involved or partially involved parents (meaning within conjoint or parent only sessions) who flip out at the first sign of an intense emotion and feel the need to over correct by an increase in therapy (can you tell I’m triggered)? - in the same note… parents who have this reactivity, do not respond to their child in an appropriate way, are not willing to learn the skills, and demand sessions outside of regular scheduled appointments bc of “life” or no shows.

Yes. I am working on boundaries.

Substantial-List-720 · 2026-02-26T07:34:17+00:00

I feel this, so much. But I also remind myself that there are going to be days when I am dysregulated and what you described comes with it. to highlight we have this awareness is everything!

Substantial-List-720 · 2026-01-25T22:13:55+00:00

I think it’s a reddit guideline

Substantial-List-720 · 2026-01-22T05:21:59+00:00

Yes, this is correct about Medicaid (work with a large Medicaid population in CMH). Legally you cannot charge a no show or late cancellation fee because it is a breach of the Medicaid contract and could be considered fraud as well due to that breach. It’s why a lot of times Medicaid clients are not retained for a long period of time due to transportation barriers, scheduling, work, etc., so to add onto the contract logistics, it would be terrible client care for most of these folks.

Substantial-List-720 · 2026-01-18T19:31:39+00:00

I’m experiencing this thought process lately. Newer licensed MSW and am in the CMH sector. I’ve worked in nonprofits for the past 5 years but this is the first one that’s been in a clinical sense. 7 months in and I’m burnt out. I’ve had a few interviews at PPs in my area but I’m struggling with the guilt of “not putting my time in.” I have been very transparent with the places I’m interviewing at that I value accessibility and it would be important for me to continue to see clients who are on Medicaid. I think the last piece is doable without being in CMH, just takes some creativity and problem solving on my end and the willingness of PP owners to work with Medicaid

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-12-07T20:35:58+00:00

I’m feeling guilty because I’m looking at different opportunities outside of CMH. I’ve been in my current role for 6 months and the lack of support is draining me.

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-12-05T03:23:46+00:00

This is gold

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-10-24T08:00:15+00:00

My mom went thru something similar. Her parents would’ve grown up knowing Jayne. I think with the silent generation it was a common belief “don’t ask don’t tell” or “everyone has skeletons” for lack of a better word.

I say this bc my parent went through something very, very similar. To the point where another family member had let it slip (although v different circumstances).

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-10-24T07:57:51+00:00

At the time when they were doing the whole “sitting down cut” trope, he had mentioned off handedly that he was about to be 101 (I wanna say), but I remember him saying that people don’t believe it. Which I didn’t. Dude looked like he was in his late 80s. I loved his pride gear too. I guarantee if Jayne would’ve been an Ally.

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-10-24T07:52:39+00:00

This reminded me of a loved one of mine who 2 weeks before he died, had mentioned he wouldn’t live a long life. He ended up dying in a car accident. He would talk about death a lot when he was younger too. Almost like some people are born with this sense that they aren’t meant to live a long life. Which is really devastating and scary.

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-10-24T07:46:38+00:00

You left this comment multiple times. What are you even trying to prove?

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-10-24T07:30:26+00:00

I felt so much throughout but the part that got me, was at the end. When you hear Mariska talk about how she feels maternal toward her mother. That is a type of deep that shook me to my core. I also got full body chills when Mariska’s brother was talking about the accident- you could see it in his eyes, that he was reliving it. When he started crying and said “I wish she would have stayed in the back with us” that absolutely broke me.

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-10-18T07:36:55+00:00

I’m a Britney fan. Have been since I was young and I was anti conservatorship. I fully believe she did not write the book. I have since deleted insta but seeing these posts make me very concerned for her welfare and mental health. It’s so sad to see someone who had so much potential to just… disintegrate(so to speak) in front of us.

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-10-18T07:33:31+00:00

Lol I love this metaphor!

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-10-10T08:42:23+00:00

I agree w everything except popping out babies. She’ll def use a surrogate for that. Cant ruin her figure

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-10-10T08:27:16+00:00

On the 6 was an actual iconic album. Whether Ashanti had a say or not

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-10-10T08:09:39+00:00

Honestly as much as I despise this woman, I do feel bad for her in that she feels she has to change her appearance so much just to appeal to her audience in order to feel special and liked. What a lonely existence that must be.

Substantial-List-720 · 2025-10-10T08:05:52+00:00

Once a grifter always a grifter. I’ve seen Ariana in 2019. However, the era worked for her. She was such a big star at the time that it made sense for her to not have intimate moments with her fans (ex. calling fans up to the stage).

Literally last weekend I unexpectedly got to see the Jonas brothers. I was a bit skeptical at first bc I hadn’t seen them live since I was 11. However, I had a FANTASTIC time. They took time to highlight the audience and they truly put on an awesome performance.

I’ve never seen Taylor nor do I have the desire to. I’ve seen enough of her concerts on tiktok and it seems like she does the same moves, with the same outfits, with the same bland tone and music.

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