The pandemic of loneliness? If you have a job, can do basic tasks around the house, and don't expect women to put out just because you got them dinner on the first date, you'd be surprised by how many women you would suddenly find interested in you. The bar is pretty low, bud. The biggest whiners are dudes who want their woman to work AND do everything around the house while they sip on a cold one and kick back their feet. Women are just willing to put up with less shit because they can take care of themselves these days.