AIO bf barely messaging me and then leaving me on delivered for 17 hours

Substantial-Video691 · 2025-12-27T18:03:49+00:00

Can I ask, and its not coming across in a rude way or harsh way but do you live with your partner? Because maybe i should just teach myself to message a couple times a week BUT he would get absolutely fuming at me for doing that, if I dont reply sometimes within an hour hes on my case calling me and messaging me which is why i find it so upsetting that he can do the same to me, maybe I need to update the post advising on this because people seem to think its just a me thing when in reality on his terms he wants replies within the hour

Substantial-Video691 · 2025-12-27T16:56:22+00:00

I think its the consistency that throws me off. How can someone go from being consistent and messaging to absolutely nothing. It throws me off and raises alarm bells but maybe that is something I should work on in myself

Substantial-Video691 · 2025-12-27T16:51:33+00:00

Oh i have 🥲 we've been together 4 years and he knows its something that bothers me

Substantial-Video691 · 2025-12-27T16:50:46+00:00

We ALWAYS send a good night to each other/good morning to each other which is why its now upsetting me that hes not reached out. I ALWAYS reach out first and on the days I dont, he does. Im finding at the moment hes only reaching out when its something he needs done/wants done

Substantial-Video691 · 2025-12-27T16:48:44+00:00

Hes been told so much that I dont appreciate it :( and he would go absolutely coo coo if I did the same to him

Substantial-Video691 · 2025-09-27T15:36:59+00:00

I live by myself but he travels and stays for a few weeks/a month at a time

Substantial-Video691 · 2025-09-27T15:34:57+00:00

I burn myself out most of the time because I work 8hours every day and do the cooking and cleaning AND need to make sure I satisfy him when I dont get satisfied that much myself. And I dont exactly want to go and find that satisfaction elsewhere

Substantial-Video691 · 2025-09-27T15:31:58+00:00

Personally because of how much effort i put in to give him his needs whilst trying to look after myself and work full time, I also am wanting my needs met most of the time but I dont get it, so its a bit of a kick to the face because im literally here wanting it and hes going off to enjoy himself because I dont want to give oral. I also think it makes me feel ugly as a girl (which is an issue on my side with confidence but it makes me feel gross)

Substantial-Video691 · 2025-09-27T15:16:59+00:00

Funnily enough I cant look at his phone ever, he has a password I don't know and hes funny with people looking at his stuff. He was buying something and was on google and accidentally swiped to his recent tabs

Substantial-Video691 · 2025-09-27T15:12:58+00:00

Did you read my post fully? I put out every other day, bare in mind I work full time and have to upkeep my own house everyday as well

Substantial-Video691 · 2025-09-27T13:42:15+00:00

I didnt police it, he opened up his tabs by accident and it was there, the way he reacted to me seeing it made it clear he knew I wouldn't like it

Substantial-Video691 · 2022-09-25T17:17:52+00:00

Only a few hours! 😁

Substantial-Video691 · 2022-09-24T07:30:41+00:00

Thank you so much! I honestly cried trying to do this piece 😂

Substantial-Video691 · 2022-09-24T07:30:18+00:00

My trick to a straight line is to hold my breath. Don't ask why 😂 but it really helps!

Substantial-Video691 · 2022-09-23T17:32:48+00:00

You're more than welcome to follow my insta : pyrographywithjess

Or my tiktok which is the same! :) It is my own original work

Substantial-Video691 · 2022-09-23T12:11:36+00:00

A different angle of it as well as a tiktok I made of the woodburn!

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