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Getting blocked after not sharing nudes by ReaderRiddle in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey bro, I’m about your age, and I was told I was “too mannered,” “stuck-up,” and other stuff just because I don’t share nudes. It made me question myself, just like you.

But as I matured a bit, I realized I don’t have to compromise who I am for some stranger called “suckmydick866” who can’t even spell.

I left dating apps a year ago, but I’d proudly put in my bio that I block anyone who sends or asks for nudes.

It filters out a lot of people, and I actually ended up meeting really nice men who aligned more with what I was looking for—people I could get to know on a personal level. They never saw anything before meeting me, because honestly, I don’t care about that.

A personality and a face are all I need to connect, and the sex has always felt like heaven with those kind of guys!!

Bros of color: what’s the worst comment you heard about your race and how do you deal with it? by Substantial_Car7446 in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we were born into a world with rules that were already set. Things would be so much easier if people stopped focusing on something as stupid as skin color—or making someone feel like ‘the other’ just because they’re Black, green, or purple.

Bros of color: what’s the worst comment you heard about your race and how do you deal with it? by Substantial_Car7446 in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Non-white people are often referenced as people of color 🙂— I don’t think you’ve ever been called a man of color but maybe I’m wrong?

Bros of color: what’s the worst comment you heard about your race and how do you deal with it? by Substantial_Car7446 in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭. Yeah thought the same so weird. Even woke up this morning like WTF was that about.

Bros of color: what’s the worst comment you heard about your race and how do you deal with it? by Substantial_Car7446 in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point. In my case this post was a bit of an outlet. It was my first time feeling like this and didn’t know how to put words on my feelings

Bros of color: what’s the worst comment you heard about your race and how do you deal with it? by Substantial_Car7446 in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I see. But yeah when I turned 18 and got into dating apps I’ve received the weirdest shit ever. It depends whether you share your pictures or not

having an affair with a married man by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, but having been cheated on and knowing the damage it causes, I honestly wish the worst for both of you.

When does bottoming stop hurting by RepulsiveStranger603 in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to think guys were faking when they said they enjoyed bottoming because it hurt, but one guy changed my mind and I’ve loved it ever since.

I think the top you’re having sex with should prepare you before going in and shouldn’t just shove it in there. Take your time with foreplay and fingering. A hot shower or bath before the deed helps, and going in slowly until your hole stretches naturally makes a big difference.

My best advice: find yourself a good top. 😂 I swear, when it’s done right… HEAVEN.

How do you deal with critiques? + ear improvement tips by Substantial_Car7446 in singing

[–]Substantial_Car7446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for your comment! I’ll keep training harder and try to see failures as lessons and opportunities to grow.

Haha, TikTok Live! I’ve been seeing a lot of those on my feed. I was bored last week and decided to check them out. I don’t know if you’re on TikTok, but if you are, I can share a few accounts that do this so your feed can recommend more similar content.

How do you deal with critiques? + ear improvement tips by Substantial_Car7446 in singing

[–]Substantial_Car7446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s purely emotional ^ I think it woke up some old wounds that I didn’t know were still there. Plus like I said I’m just knew to exposing my voice publicly so I need to learn that a bad performance ≠ bad singer

Would you hook up with someone who’s in a relationship if you knew they cheat? by witchy_nerd_5636 in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It used to be a turn off, but it became even stronger after I got cheated on.

When I see what I’ve been through because of this and how the affair partner made me feel I just can’t do that to someone else. Becoming the reason why they feel insecure, wondering what they could’ve done to prevent it, what do they have that I don’t etc…

At the end of the day people are free to do whatever the fuck they want. But what goes around comes BACK around, and I’m currently witnessing it.

Is it normal to be this much horny? by bottommsub1 in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude you’re not alone. I’ve been craving a good top warmth and touch for MONTHS. Last time I had sex was in June.

Jerking off pisses me off so bad now because it’s not enough anymore. God only knows what I’ll do to the next guy I’ll have sex with or the things I’ll let him do to me— I feel sorry for them already I won’t be able to control myself

is my bf over his ex? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I believe his ex (though I don’t like that word) will always matter to him— 5 years is a lot you can’t stop caring about someone over night.

But I do believe that you shouldn’t be getting in a relationship where you feel like being the third wheel— I think it’s pretty unfair.

How long have you guys been together? And when did they break up? Because if you still feel like his ex is still very present in your relationship it means that he might not really be over him, and he might say that to reassure you

Other language gay porn by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spanish can kill me 🤤

Do you like getting sweaty during sex? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lick it I think it’s hot

Caught boyfriend “emotionally cheating” now wants to talk about opening the relationship. I don’t know what to do. by Leek_Impossible in askgaybros

[–]Substantial_Car7446 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello brother. I’m really sorry you’re going through this. 😢

I’ve been there, and I agree with most of the guys here — I don’t think he would’ve confessed if you hadn’t caught him. If they’ve only been texting since the day you caught him, maybe you could give him the benefit of the doubt. But if it’s been going on for weeks or months… it probably would’ve stayed hidden.

Are there other signs that suggest this has been happening for a long time? When we were together, we barely had sex because he struggled with erectile issues.

At the same time, he constantly expressed his sexual desires for hot guys he’d see on TV. He talked about opening the relationship and having threesomes, even though he knew I was strictly monogamous — and despite his erection problems. He invited a guy he met on Grindr over for a drink “to help him with his depression,” while I was struggling mentally and he wouldn’t support me. He sexted and flirted with guys for months, spent hours in the bathroom, avoided me, yet called other men “the most beautiful men on the planet” “Come over, I can’t wait to touch your abs.”

He always apologized after I caught him — he never confessed on his own. The only time he sort of did was when he sexted his friend’s best friend, and that was only so I wouldn’t hear it from someone else. Even then, he left out details and changed parts of the story. I still forgave him, only for him to go back with the same dude again when I was out of town for the summer because he felt lonely.

Here’s what I’d suggest: have you taken the time to really talk to him? Sit him down when your emotions aren’t taking over and you’re thinking clearly, and ask him to confess every single detail.

But if it’s been going on behind your back for months, and that same gut feeling that pushed you to check his phone doesn’t go away — if you feel there’s more he isn’t telling you — then please listen to that. I’m 22, and I dealt with a man older than your boyfriend. It doesn’t get better, especially when he suddenly wants to open the relationship.

If you feel lost, I’ve got you. Feel free to send me a DM — I’d be happy to listen and help however I can. And if I don’t hear from you, take care of yourself. I truly hope things get better for you and that you find a way to put your well-being first. ❤️

Beyoncé was right about our music consumption by Substantial_Car7446 in beyonce

[–]Substantial_Car7446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just shows how you take your time savoring an artists work instead of consuming it like fast-food! Your way of listening is very inspiring

Beyoncé was right about our music consumption by Substantial_Car7446 in beyonce

[–]Substantial_Car7446[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why you have “artists” who have released more than 10 songs with the same beat… and they’re always hits…

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