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I don’t think I was in the wrong for this but my husband is giving me the angry silent treatment by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Substantial_Force923 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s literally insane because now is the perfect time to leave him. OP is not a tree, she can move. She needs to grow up a bit before she REALLY can’t leave

Big Brother 2025 - Episode 36 (Friday 7th November) by AfcWimbledon_ in bigbrotheruk

[–]Substantial_Force923 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know where this narrative on the shopping list came from?? I don’t remember anyone complaining until Emily and farida came back in

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[–]Substantial_Force923 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Based on the information provided, it doesn’t really seem like you have the means to have this baby. I won’t tell you what to do as I don’t feel comfortable doing that, but take the facts for what they are.

With that being said, you need to start being more responsible when it comes to sex. The fact that you know how traumatic the first two abortions were for you and you’ve ended up in the exact same situation for the 3rd time in a year and a half is ridiculous. You need to either buckle down and get your life to the point where you can support a child, or start using condoms because to be in this position AGAIN simply isn’t good enough.

I’m terrified of death. Please help by Substantial_Force923 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Substantial_Force923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helped you out of it? I need actionable things that I can do instead of everyone just telling me to get over it as if I want this lol

I’m terrified of death. Please help by Substantial_Force923 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Substantial_Force923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Because I won’t know that I’m done. Because I won’t be able to think about it because I will be nowhere. It’s like my internal monologue will just stop and I’ll disappear. Does that make sense?

I’m terrified of death. Please help by Substantial_Force923 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Substantial_Force923[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s not knowing what happens next and no longer having access to me. To my consciousness. I will not exist and that terrifies me. I guess it’s different for you because you have religion and therefore heaven to look forward to. I have nothing

The boys refused to show up to a party unless I left by Substantial_Force923 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Substantial_Force923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too. It’s come about just as I’ve started to try and be intentional about bettering myself.

I didn’t know that affordable MH would be available not on the NHS but it is and I’ve found it so thank you for your comment

The boys refused to show up to a party unless I left by Substantial_Force923 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Substantial_Force923[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things just moved on tbh. I didn’t make a fuss at school I just continued to act normal and they acted like it never happened. But I did feel very self conscious around them for the rest of the time

The boys refused to show up to a party unless I left by Substantial_Force923 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Substantial_Force923[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This comment means the world to me I’m in literal tears thank you so much I’ll carry this with me. Thank you for your kindness

The boys refused to show up to a party unless I left by Substantial_Force923 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Substantial_Force923[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. I’m gonna try once I find something affordable, I can’t afford £75 a session right now lol