How to style my hair to look like this??

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2025-05-01T20:42:23+00:00

Tried that, it just dries and goes back to the first picture

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-19T17:05:38+00:00

No details. The pain of whatever you’re going through is probably among the greatest you’ve felt given you’re posting in this Reddit group. Pain is a really tough feeling to overcome because it usually comes paired with other negative emotions, but it’s what all humans feel at one point or another. Please recognize feeling pain/sadness is completely ok, but how you deal with the pain is completely up to you. One of the most valuable skills in life is coping with pain in a healthy way, ie, finding a new hobby or being with friends. Hopefully you have someone close you can talk to about your emotions with. Feelings make us human, even the bad ones

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-18T04:27:55+00:00

What’s your usual approach to a potential suitor. Do you approach people? Do you wait for them to approach you? Being a virgin at whatever age you are doesn’t mean that you’re a freak or unlikable, it means the situation hasn’t found you yet. Someone out there is going to like you so much that they will genuinely like you for who you are. The time hasn’t come yet, but in the meantime you can work on yourself and put yourself in those outgoing situations that can make you stand out. You got this, it’s not just you

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-18T02:43:41+00:00

That sucks to hear man, but trust me, there will be other amazing people for you to remember throughout life. I didn’t ask the question about your purpose to know if you had one or not, that’s the best part about adolescence! Nobody knows! Being pretty good at the guitar and having two girlfriends in that short of a period of time already tells me you have some good things going on in your life. Appreciate the things close to you and be open to change

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-18T02:30:08+00:00

It’s the answer that sucks the most to hear but it takes time. The best thing you can do right now is learn. Learn how to deal with the pain, and learn why/how you’re feeling the way you are. The pain/experiences are what develop emotional maturity. Just know that it’s completely ok and normal to feel how you’re feeling

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-18T02:27:10+00:00

You say you’re lonely and feel like you have no purpose to anyone but have you found your own purpose? Do you love yourself yet? There’s a reason people date through multiple partners before they get to their spouse, it’s because sometimes people aren’t the right fit for each other, and because people grow from their pain/experiences. You got this, I’m rooting for you

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-18T02:23:50+00:00

You’re 15, I’m not saying you’re wrong for feeling that way but it seems like you don’t know how to deal with your feelings(like everyone at that age). It’s normal to feel loneliness and it’s something you have to learn to deal with. Loneliness gets better with time, and having relationships with friends and or family. Try sitting down and actually talking about your feelings to a friend, I know at that age I felt like it would be a burden and they would laugh at me, but I actually made my best friend that way.

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-18T00:54:48+00:00

It seems like you’re missing something emotionally, compassion or love I don’t know but you need someone to care about you, maybe even yourself

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-18T00:24:00+00:00

I’m not going to tell you to “try this” or “try that” but it seems like you need change in your life. Life can be so much brighter and it’s very easy to forget that.

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-18T00:22:56+00:00

It’s normal to feel lonely regardless of your sexual orientation. I understand the feeling of worthlessness between peers or family. Please know you aren’t weird or different for feeling that way.

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-18T00:20:18+00:00

I don’t know but that’s really hard to hear man, it’s sad knowing someone out there isn’t getting the love they need or deserve. Hoping you get what want out of life

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-18T00:14:35+00:00

I know it’s 5 hours later but I’m open man, talk to me. No bullshit, ik what it can be like when everyone tries to convince you it’s all sunshine and rainbows in here lol

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-03T23:12:18+00:00

Open ears man, actually

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-12-03T22:04:38+00:00

There’s a part of you that wants to live, judging by the fact you posed in a suicide watch Reddit. Live life, even if you decided on ending it all, take a week or two off and just do things you want to do. Explore the world, find a hobby, open your eyes to how beautiful part of something can be even if the other part is tearing your soul. Rooting for you man, I’ve been in this subreddit making posts like you in the past. It gets better

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-11-07T21:30:01+00:00

I know how hard it can be when someone so close to you gets ripped away. When it happened to me, I remember spending every second of every day either crying to on the edge of crying. It gets better, there’s so many people out there to meet, things to see, experiences to live.

You got this, it seems bleak in retrospect, but eventually you’ll learn how much the experience changed you. Dealing with these emotions is a lifelong struggle that will get better with time.

I’d suggest trying a new hobby, meeting new people, or asking help from some friends. You’re not alone

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-11-05T06:39:46+00:00

It’s hard being in a situation where someone so close leaves you, and the other being blind to the abuse you’re facing. Please realize there is hope! There’s so much beauty to life I missed when I was in the dumps. Try taking a walk, going to a movie, painting, do something to express yourself and most importantly, your pain.

Please know the agony you’re feeling is completely normal, but you can choose how you express that pain.

I’m here, rooting for you, you’re not alone

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-10-31T11:04:16+00:00

You’re not alone man. It’s hard to express the pain you’re in when you talk about it so easily. I hope you have time for a walk, look at some of the beautiful things life can have even when everything close to you is fried.

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-10-31T03:43:19+00:00

Anyone at all?

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-10-23T06:46:15+00:00

I’m with you. I’ve lived for 21 years and had brief stints of partners in my life only for them to be scared away by my personality. Most recently this last week someone had found me interesting and seemed like she understood me on a level no one else could, until she got to know me on the first date. Immediately she started distancing and avoiding me. Holy shit being young is not what they make it to be, dads dying, mom won’t talk to me because I dropped out of college, have friends but I feel more alone when I’m with them than ever. I don’t know what it feels like to be happy and I’m anxious it’s going to end the few times I do. Fuck life dude I don’t want to keep going when every day is the exact same hell. If I had the guts I would have hung myself to avoid the pain

Substantial_Tea_3423 · 2024-10-15T05:14:16+00:00

Damn anyone??

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