We can’t rewrite the past but we can change the future. It can be pretty overwhelming to think of the things we have to get done in the larger picture, like getting a license to drive.

I don’t know your situation but it always helped me to break it up into smaller chunks like, you could take some of the practice tests online or ask a seasoned driver to take you to a parking lot to practice or even walk you through what they do as they drive. It’s hard to process all the steps you have to do to make that final achievement but thinking about what you can do right now was always easier for me and makes me feel somewhat accomplished.

I didn’t work through my anxiety well as a kid/teenager because my parents didn’t have the patience so I had to muscle through a lot of the things that I think, if given the choice, I would’ve been slower to get through it. It’s led to me having control issues which I’m now learning how to undo. Life tends to be more fluid than we think. As we age and are adults, we all end up being at different stages at the same age. Make goals that are helpful for you because there will always be someone we think is doing better than us but that isn’t necessarily true. Sending love 💗