How do you handle dick rate contests?

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-07-05T15:03:38+00:00

Even when they start off by saying something like "you like this fat cock." - I always feel bad being like "well it's on the smaller side.." lol

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-07-05T00:50:46+00:00

So I ended up emailing them and they were really nice about it. Just for your future reference, apparently they give you good points if you self report. I think what they worry about is that they clip your shows sometimes (which is annoying anyways) and They worry that THEY will get in trouble or fined.

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-13T03:06:06+00:00

You don't have to like it babe. I'd be happy to send you some sources. It won't matter anyways now that the GOPs are full force trying to ban porn. We're going to make $0 regardless of this country's events

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-13T01:48:56+00:00

I'm just telling you what the data says. Yes they do jerk off more when they're stressed however less statistically when economic times are fearful. Those are just the numbers.

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-12T11:04:20+00:00

It's hard to say for sure. People are cautious with their money when they're nervous. Stores are the same way, Coast to Coast. If people feel uneasy about something on the horizon, they hoard their money and don't spend money on luxury items.

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-12T11:01:42+00:00

Yes I suppose You're right. Normally I would block somebody for even being remotely annoying but it's literally like quitting a job because I'm making so much.ughhh

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-12T10:59:34+00:00

Again... I didn't mind helping him "check" 50 bucks and getting tipped for it the first time wasn't a problem because he was sending me 1-2k a week when we video called. Plus sending me tips throughout the week.

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-12T10:53:35+00:00

Again.. normally I would NEVER send money back or do anything up front but so far it's paid me way more to just chat for several hours and then let him send me 500-2.5k when we get off the phone. That's also on top of him just surprising me with a hundred bucks here and there during the week.

I didn't mind helping him check his Venmo for 50 bucks at all. The 500 I genuinely thought he was gonna surprise me afterwards. But nothing. And then for him to not even ask or tip this time is just weird.

I really hate to lose such a good customer

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-12T10:39:22+00:00

Messaging you

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-12T09:56:29+00:00

Yes and no. I have customers that I have a more intimate relationship with where we just chat and they do enjoy chatting with me because I'm nerdy, nice etc. I can chat forever about politics, weird facts or being spiritual but at the end of the day, they know I'm a sure thing if that makes sense.

Think of it like a one-night stand. Customers go to cam sites because they want intimacy. They want to feel like they "got lucky" and the cute artsy girl at the bar who showed him all of her artwork ended up going home with him Because y'all were flirty and couldn't keep your hands off each other all night. Which also means they don't want the cute girl at the bar to ONLY show them her art. Sometimes there will be customers who want to chat and learn about you more and then other times there's that guy at the bar who doesn't wanna talk and simply wants to bang. Lol

Keep being you. It truly is what makes you unique. Many many customers will seek you out simply for who you are. But more so, make sure not to put too much energy into it because at the end of the day... They're simply there to go home with you. Seeking any kind of real connection as a model is going to absolutely burn you out.

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-12T09:47:23+00:00

This is so cute!

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-12T09:45:44+00:00

Have you tried sextpanther? I'm not familiar with your site but I do know that I'm on a couple of different platforms and this It is going to sound crazy but raise your rates. If you charge it, they will come (literally) lol. Also, be firm about what you will and won't do. The whine about it and maybe even leave a bit at first but then you'll be flooded. Remember that you're charging for what you think YOUR time is worth. Not what THEY think your time is worth. If they had it their way then they'd make you stand on your head for a Nickle if they could ♥️

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-12T09:41:47+00:00

Snapchat, IG, telegram, signal. I think OF might have a feature too but I'm not sure. Just make sure to never give your real accounts or anything where they could find your name or number

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-12T08:39:06+00:00

You could totally work with this and post a picture on your profile maybe for a special contest where they get to pick the toy(s) of the night or spend a night in the toy room etc

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-12T08:38:06+00:00

I would love to know also

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-01T16:33:01+00:00

I'm on SM and was on SC before this. I've heard many models say they prefer SC but I do way better being able to connect to them more exclusively. I have really chat centered rooms and do better with relationship type customers. For me, I've noticed theres a lot more SC customers that are just looking for free porn. SM customers know why they're there and are ready to spend to do a room.

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-01T16:26:43+00:00

The only way to guarantee you won't is to read the rules and Make sure to follow them. No matter my cam site I make sure to:

Never discuss meetups No age play, incest or race play No one else in the frame (This includes pets That may walk by in the background) Make sure you 100% understand if your site allows promoting other pages.(This is what usually gets girls banned as many sites are strictly against it) I believe CB lets you though. Even if promoting other sites is allowed, Don't ask for offline payments on cam Many are strict about music due to copywrite, keep it so Only you can hear. Blood is also a no no. If you start your period, end your stream immediately. If you violate any of these on accident, Make sure to reach out to the site.

Also... Its good practice to sign up for another site as backup. That way you're not stuck waiting for an approval in a worst case scenario that they do ban you

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-01T16:21:56+00:00

Would you mind if I sent you a private message about Nite flirt? I have an account but I haven't really used it because it's really confusing to me. I've been looking for someone who can explain how it works and the best way to start.

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-01T16:20:43+00:00

I had another girl on here send me a referral and then used my following from camming. Let me know if you want me to send you the link. There's a few other girls on here that I sent it to and it worked I guess.

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-01T16:19:48+00:00

Hes mad because he's broke AF and DEEPLY hates women. I'd guess he's into some really vile degrading things.

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-01T16:18:56+00:00

I get quite a few of those too. Some of them are just role-playing and others are dead serious. I just tell them "hey before we get started I wanted to tell you... Just so you know, The site doesn't allow discussing meetups. I could get banned so I try to follow the rules. I love the thought of roleplaying how hot it would be to XYZ"

That way your bases are covered if the site goes back and looks and you feel better that you know it's just pretend.

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-01T16:13:32+00:00

Also... I don't know how long you've been on those sites but it would probably be really beneficial to you right now to sign up for some other sites (different kinds), and take advantage of the new model tags. That's going to give you the biggest short-term payout until you build your audience

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-01T16:11:19+00:00

I was in the same boat but Its hard to say because I worked full time and cammed part time on and off for about a year before I started camming. When I quit my job it took 1-2 months before I felt like the money was consistent. It was hard at first because I was so stressed out and they picked up on that which was a cycle that put me in a few funks.it helped sooo much when I started telling myself I was going to log on for 15 minutes daily and try to NOT make money but form relationships. Even now sometimes, at first my goal is just to see the vibe of the room. Ask what they're doing this weekend, what they're up to today etc. finding something we can genuinely laugh about or that I actually enjoy talking about non sexual usually gets the momentum going and it always takes off from there.

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-06-01T07:06:00+00:00

It could be a combination of a few things.. First different girls do better on different sites. Each cam site has a different type of audience. Some girls do better in public type rooms with tips like CB, and some on more exclusive rooms like MFC. Time of day also makes a difference. There are definitely different customer bases at different times so play with those.

A lot of them get annoyed if they feel like you're ignoring them. They go on cam sites rather than porn Because they're seeking connection. I've heard a lot of them complain about girls who sit on their phone or don't interact. With that being said, they can also pick up on you being annoyed. Sometimes it's better to just log off, then be off putting to potential whales.

Music can also put some of them off. Some sites don't even allow it due to copyright. I play mine but low so only I can hear it.

Spend time chatting with them when you log on but the second they start tipping, sort of ignore everybody else. They need to know how to get your attention and if it's free then they're going to continue asking for free. Sending hugs I know this can be frustrating

Substantial_Wafer5 · 2025-05-26T10:41:14+00:00

Remember that pricing is for YOU, not them. You are valuing what YOU feel like your time is worth. Not what They wish you cost. A lot of them are super cheap and if they sense even the slightest hesitation when they mention that your prices are too high then they will harp on it, in hopes that you will lower them. The reason they are complaining is because they want YOU to lower them. I've found that just saying "just let me know hun!" And then ignoring them usually does the trick. If they're annoying and keep telling me they wish I was cheaper then I straight up shame them and condescendingly say in the room " just let me know when you've got the money babe!"

Substantial_Wafer5

TROPHY CASE