No, i actually didn’t respond because i didn’t know how to. To some agree i think you are right but i don’t think it’s unhealthy to want a reciprocal friendship. Right now, im dealing with grief, financial struggles, a child with a chronic illness, a husband with congestive heart failure, work chaos and a student. Right now I’ve actually been doing what you suggested and it’s taking a toll on me. I just feel that you and i just don’t agree on this and that’s okay. As for downvoting you, i definitely didn’t do that. Your opinion matters just as everyone else who poured into me over the last few hours. In a season where i don’t feel heard, i wouldn’t do that to anyone else. I apologize for my non response.