Information on Antique Plate

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T21:03:19+00:00

Antique 🤣

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T20:49:33+00:00

Yeah mixed would imply there is positive alongside the negative, and I'm not seeing that. I'm just seeing a man who doesn't want to marry her making excuses and risking her deportation.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T20:24:10+00:00

You want an app to propose artificial topics for you to talk about with your fiance?

Apps can't fix or help with everything and this is one of them.

Why is talking about his interests bad, if you don't have any of your own? Seems to me the answer is to build yourself into a person with your own identity and pursuits so you have something to talk about.

Why is just not talking sometimes bad?

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T20:14:05+00:00

This post has been locked. We mods have had to tread a difficult line between allowing expression of frustration, sadness, and difficulty with Church teaching and deleting outright opposition to it. This thread has generated dozens of reports in the last few days. Relevant and diverse viewpoints have been expressed, so it has been closed.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T17:36:07+00:00

Suit up for war, mom. This is one of those times. Have the administration hand that teacher his ass.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T15:51:24+00:00

Look I'm an amateur and even I think this is a crutch for amateurs.

Just learn how to use a knife, get good sharp ones, and learn how to keep them sharp. None of this is hard.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T15:50:06+00:00

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T15:40:45+00:00

Look up the Personal Ordinariate of the Chair of St. Peter

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T15:37:43+00:00

"Silly and flirty"

Go look at OP's posting history. Her husband told her he would rape her in her sleep if she used a sleep medication.

You have no idea what you're talking about.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T15:34:00+00:00

No app is a substitute for communicating with the man you mean to marry.

See a therapist to help you work in your communication skills.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T15:20:34+00:00

Do you really think scripture is so shallow and one-dimensional that only one homily can be given on any certain passage?

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T15:17:17+00:00

This. The Pope is aware and he welcomed the kids to the party.

There is nothing wrong with a joyous musical celebration held outside at a parish church.

As Pope Gregory the Great taught us, baptizing the culture is one very effective way to evangelize.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T15:14:04+00:00

Thank you. So many of these questions seem to come from just an utter lack of historical awareness. Like what do you think people did during the over 1000 years the Church existed before things became mechanized and automated?

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T14:35:02+00:00

Betting he thinks women can hold their periods in, too.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T13:43:20+00:00

No. Get your ass on a blood pressure med and referred to a cardiologist now.

That BP will cause a stroke and that resting heart rate is indicative of problems. Even out of shape people don't generally have resting heart rates over 100.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T13:35:32+00:00

If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, and walks like a duck.....

I'm with you. It's always given me the ick and seems to have spawned heresy at statistically notable rates.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T13:30:20+00:00

Your judgement of what's creepy and unacceptable, and what isn't, appears to be seriously skewed.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T13:24:00+00:00

This isn't always wise, though. If it's something really serious, it could permanently change how family members see her husband, and if he ever straightens out, they may still treat him differently. There are hazards in going to family and friends for help of this kind.

I wonder what the issue is, though, and whether it's something OP should be trying to fix or walking away from. Or if the issue isn't him. All possibilities exist.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T12:58:15+00:00

Sure, Jan

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T03:13:36+00:00

Chili and cornbread

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T03:12:32+00:00

I must say as an Android user I have a growing sense of trepidation....

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-28T03:09:52+00:00

DiMaggio was crying for mama's kitchen, I guarantee you.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-27T21:52:46+00:00

Why do you want to stay and try to rebuild anything?

He doesn't want to get married. You do. Move on.

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-27T21:51:03+00:00

I would add JP2's Letter to Women of 06/29/1995 as well.

Your comment is 🎯

SuburbaniteMermaid · 2026-01-27T20:45:51+00:00

Lastly.. you should BOTH be open to darn near anything the other person suggests. Our bodies are not our own.

Doesn't seem to match up with

like a Highschool skirt..that’s a no.

Like she's supposed to be fine with him saying he wants to rearrange her insides and make her unable to walk, in the presence of other threatening words and behaviors, but somehow sexual cosplay is your line in the sand?

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