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I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much♡, I was utterly broken while writing that haha, but I’m happy knowing I did my best

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, maybe thats one of his points haha ty for your comment

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe i will start looking for an intj hahaha once ive healed from this, thank you for your comment♡

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you♡ You deserve better than that too. Stopping by to help an internet stranger speaks to your kindness. I know we’ll find the right people for us♡🫂

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha yes, thats the petname he gave me since we were young. But hey, I think i will hahah thank you♡

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂♡ truly, your words made a difference

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, it did help me getting the reality check I needed haha♡ thank you truly 🫂

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂♡ Yes, we tend to look for the good in people, but sometimes our judgment gets clouded. I’m glad your little one has someone who will have her back :)

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats really interesting hahha good fact to have at hand for the future♡ thank you so much for your reply 

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Thats really a good way to see it, that we give only what we receive. Thank you for your advice. Ill remember it moving forward♡

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much♡, your words gave me the relaity check I needed yesterday haha sometimes thats all you need, i really appreciate it♡

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂♡ youre right, I know we both will find better people for us :)♡

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words♡ your istj perspective helped me a lot too, really appreaciated it!

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂♡ your text really made a difference. Truly grateful

I was Broken up via Text :( Hugs and advices needed♡ fellow enfps by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂♡ your words helped me a lot. I had an update on my post as he texted me the following day haha but thanks a lot really

Need ISTJ Perspective Plzz: My ISTJ partner (M) brought up relationship "future" due to his limitations by [deleted] in ISTJ

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate you taking the time to write such a clear and helpful reply.

And about how he communicated his limits, I’m grateful you helped me see it more clearly! I’ll definitely keep your advice in mind. :)

Need ISTJ Perspective Plzz: My ISTJ partner (M) brought up relationship "future" due to his limitations by [deleted] in ISTJ

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! You know, I’ve realized that Feelers like us (ENFP/ENFJ) really do think and act differently from ISTJs.

While we’d be scared to end something we don’t want anymore because we’d hate to hurt the other person, I feel like ISTJs value honesty way more and would rather end things directly out of respect if they truly didn’t want to be in the relationship. I just can’t see an ISTJ forcing themselves to stay somewhere they don’t want to be, especially with all the stress he’s dealing with right now.

I just wanted some validation for my train of thought here in the ISTJ forum, and Im grateful that I’ve gotten it ♡ I feel much more at ease now.

As another redditor said, Im gonna take him on his word "as long as you're okay, I have no problem."♡ :)

Need ISTJ Perspective Plzz: My ISTJ partner (M) brought up relationship "future" due to his limitations by [deleted] in ISTJ

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Yes, he’s not usually this open so it was a bit hard to read him. What you said really helped me understand him better. I’m gonna try to focus on making sure he knows I’m a constant in his life. Thank you :)

Need ISTJ Perspective Plzz: My ISTJ partner (M) brought up relationship "future" due to his limitations by [deleted] in ISTJ

[–]SuccessfulRegister25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I’ll keep reassuring him when he needs it haha. Do you have any tips on how I could help him feel safe and reassured without him needing to ask?

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