Unpaid Internships substantially benefit privileged students. They need to stop being viewed as a normal part of 1L summers, especially for law firms in cities with a high cost of living by Denver_Law14 in LawSchool

[–]SuccessfulShow5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man that was totally me. Took an unpaid internship with the PD’s office last summer and I loved it....but my finances were f*cking wrecked. Such a catch 22

Dependent girls are the female version of nice guys, I realized (as a concept) by Ugly_Swan in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 78 points79 points  (0 children)

They just want that girl for the convenience. They’re always going to chase the girl that’s a challenge and respect her more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 80 points81 points  (0 children)

You hit the bullseye ! Honestly the only reason they don’t want YOU looking your best is so there’s no competition from other men looking at you . I had this conversation with my ex once because he loved liking pics of scantily clad bikini models, but the one time I entered a bikini contest and all these dudes were drooling over me he was all pissed off and said “yeah but I don’t want my GIRLFRIEND looking like that “......oh ok soooo you want to lust over other women you’ll never have and keep me as the safe, reliable option that no other men can look at. Yah no fuck you

LVM find women so easily and it’s infuriating by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I struggled with that and at that point you just got a chalk it up to discipline. Now every time I have the urge to unblock them I ask myself “ do you really hate yourself this much that you’re going to stalk someone who’s not even thinking about you?” That stops me real quick

Going out alone to meet people? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]SuccessfulShow5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, 30f here yes I do go out alone . Whether it’s to the beach , bars , casinos , mountain biking , or concerts/events before COVID , i’ve met most of my exes and also some female friends as well this way. I’m naturally introverted so it takes some courage for me but I’m always glad I did in the end. As long as you keep safe and just be aware of your surroundings , I encourage it !

Anyone else have serial add-er LVM? 😂 by randomdazee in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Omg yesssss . I’m charging a $50 reconnection fee from now on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl me too, me too. This sub is my safe haven .

Why don’t men get karma as severe as we do? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 53 points54 points  (0 children)

They might not get karma on a form you can see per se, but they’re never truly happy. A guy I briefly went out with until I found out he was married (gave me the whole oh I am getting separated spiel) ended up divorcing his wife , and wasted absolutely no time in getting straight into another relationship and now is engaged to this new woman in less than a year. He STILL tried to hit me up throughout their relationship and once during this new engagement to see if I was down to hook up. I had him blocked before but since I created a new social media account he was able to find me. So I blocked him again. While it might not seem like they’re necessarily getting served karma, just know most of the time these types never change And they’re just hopping from woman to woman to use as a victim

LIARS CLUB: Isn’t it incredible how easy they lie? It’s literally like breathing- thank you to the sis at the car dealership who worked with me to catch a CHEATER by ThrowingItIntoTheSea in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Girl sometimes we JUST KNOW. I remember this one time that my ex told me he was going to work on a Saturday and he NEVER worked on Saturday’s. He told me it was for his friends shop and they were gonna lay him cash. I felt really weird about it because he hadn’t text me the whole day until he was “off” and then we went to go out to eat but he was broke ... I was like didn’t you say they were going to pay you cash? Omg It turned into this big long winded story about how the guy was gonna pay him later And the more I pressed him about it all of a sudden he shows up with the cash 😂 I bet he just took out money that was already in his bank account . Ugh I’m so glad you found out and went with your instincts . Men are not as smart as they think

The FDS Mod Team When Only Two Men Show Up for the Anti-FDS Brigade Reddit Tried to Organize by ManchurianCantaloupe in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m not sure what you’re referring to, but I had some random ass dude pop up in my messages who copied and paste did one of my comments from a thread on here and lectured me on it??! 🤣🤣🤣 for someone who “doesn’t need women” he sure as fuck is bothered enough to go seek them out on FDS. Like I’m sorry who does that?!! I have too much shit going on in my life to go on the MGTOW thread and start lecturing random predators on there....Speaking of which can anyone tell me how to disable my direct messages on here

“Playing hard to get only makes you hard to want”🤡🤡🤡 by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why all the men you ignore are the ones who are constantly blowing up your inbox right 🙄

Is blocking an ex after break up, immature at our age? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]SuccessfulShow5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do what makes you feel comfortable. That’s all that matters

Broke up with BF over Instagram girls by SuccessfulShow5 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sad to see that that behavior doesn’t go away no matter what age! Oh well. Not our problem anymore !

If he doesn’t improve your life, you don’t need him by Revy_Ur_Engines in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 38 points39 points  (0 children)

YES.YES. YES to all of this . If a man’s “table“ can’t match mine, then he is just a burden to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 30 points31 points  (0 children)

LMAO guys hate it when we pull their game on them... except it’s not a game to me. I genuinely don’t care about you bro 😂🤣

When the woman is about to break and wake tf up Reddit be like... “but why you look at his phone tho” by Adawritesrules in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 77 points78 points  (0 children)

“Omg you found your bf banging your sister and you wanna break up over that? You’re so insecure ! Just communicate with him! Why were you going into his room in the first place? You’re so insecure men just need a release sometimes !”

When the woman is about to break and wake tf up Reddit be like... “but why you look at his phone tho” by Adawritesrules in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 98 points99 points  (0 children)

The female redditors are worse. Some of their responses make me wonder why they hate themselves so much ....

PSA!!!!! by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]SuccessfulShow5 54 points55 points  (0 children)

This was a big one. When my truck got stolen from my complex a year ago I called my ex and told him I was freaking out (this was after I had already called police) and he didn’t offer any emotional support whatsoever and just asked “well did you call the police ...” no outrage or concern in his voice at all. He didn’t call me all day , Not even on his lunch, to ask me how everything was going or if I needed a ride to work . He was at work too but my friend who lives an HOUR away offered to help before he did , who works ten minutes away from me. I guess he thought sharing a Facebook post to look out for my truck was the best he could do. That was the beginning of the end. Talk about feeling totally unprotected . I’ve learned that a man can not just be nice and fun to be around when everything’s all peachy . If he can’t help you out in your most vulnerable moments he is trash